I’m new to pheromones, 54, married, male, identical twin boys, and live in Florida, and travel all the time for work, occasionally for fun. For all my travel I stay active, exercising 4 to 5 times a week, fitness skating, elliptical trainer on the road, and light weights. I googled pheromones and the PheroTalk site featured prominently in the results so I began reading. Lots of good information available and clearly very committed forum members so I decided to give it the proverbial whirl.
I am interested in exploring pheromones to see how they can enhance my/our marriage and improve social interactions. We are empty nesters, both boys off to college, and time, stress, and my travel have taken a toll on our marriage. We are both committed to reconnect, however challenged due to the day to day stresses and weekly separation due to my travel. My goal is that intimacy, emotional and physical, can be expanded so that we can learn to appreciate and enjoy each other as we once did. My wife is a major skeptic and I have not discussed pheromones with her however depending on my/our experiences that could very well happen.
Any thoughts/recommendations on what pheromones to start with?
Good recommendations above. Can you tell us a bit more about your personality and how you relate to people? Also your wife’s personality. And how would you like to see your social relationships change?
A lot of guys come here looking to improve things at home in particular and socially in general.
First thing I will tell you to do is to read through the five threads in my signature block. The first two will get you off to a good start in expectations and usage. The next three will help you with products and strategy. In particular note one is for married guys.
The big thing to remember though is that these products are not a magic bullet. No matter what the real work is about relationship and that is going to be up to you two. The good news is that you are both commited to reconnect so that should be half the battle right there.
As a note: Steve, Renny, and myself are in our 40s. Mark-In-Dallas and MarkL are early 50s. I mention that as things tend to go along ethnic and age lines quite ofte. That is some products and dosing will be closer for us than for a guy in his 20s. There will always be personal variations but you can use our experiences as a good general guideline.
Socially, I generally prefer smaller group get togethers not large public places where lots of people I don’t know. So can be considered a bit shy. I generally would rather have a few interesting conversations as opposed to lots of conversations. My wife is at home in large public gatherings or small ones. Also, likes more meaningful interactions however she is much better at “working” a room. With all my travel, 2 to 3 days a week at home and the rest on the road for the past 12 years, the social scene at home has become pretty dull. I would like to build more of a social life with and without my wife.
For socializing, try nol based products like ih and io. They will make conversations flow easily. IO tends more towards light conversations, IH towards heavy ones.
Seems you looking for mones for just general live and relationship enhancement which is great. You can take you time and really enjoy the products.
I do suggest you read the info in Bosshanks signature block. There is a lot of excellent info for men in your age range there.
Socially as GW suggested the anols IO and IH are great and you should check those out.
Ishine for a youthful charismatic charm and uplifting feeling of well being is a must in our age group. You will love that one.
Sexually I would suggest AMMO just to relight that fire and rekindle attraction and interest. Not that you not interesting now LOL, After being in relationships for a long time we kinda become set in our ways and this will add some spark.
If you have questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
Thanks to all for your thoughts and questions. The recommended readings provided some important insights on how to get started. I have ordered IH, IO, TUTH, and AMMO and will try them one at a time to see how they work.
I am new to the forum and to pheromones as well. I just got mines yesterday and I can already say that IS works magic. In any case, I can’t really share any advice at all yet.
However, I wanted to join the welcoming vibes and wish you for that magic and enchantment to rekindle between the two of you. One of my favorite questions, I remind to myself once in a while is: When was the last time you’ve tried something for the first time?
I don’t know, I just felt inspired to share it with you: When was the last time the two of you tried something for the first time? (Just like in the beginning… the first dinner, the first kiss, the first walk, the first that that sparked little by little the magic).
In any case, if none of these words help, please grasp the supporting and encouraging vibes. Go for it.
