Well Hi, Um. Im Ben, Im 18. Im male and Im currently in California. Ive known about pheromones for a long time, never tried any, but I know how they work and things along those lines, and I thought, maybe try some! Which led me to this site.
My question is this, Ive met a great girl, and I like her alot, Im not sure how she feels about me, though, so Im trying to schedule something where its just me and her, and I want her to be open and honest to me about her feelings. My problem is that Im not the best talker around, and starting a conversation like this isnt my strong point, which probably stems from my fear of making people feel awkward. So, Is there anything out there that will help move this undoubtedly awkward conversation along? I’m hoping that this will help me in other situations after this one as well.
So this girl that you’re talking about, how well do you know her? If you two know each other quite well then a heart to heart would be fine (and there are phero’s to help you there ), but if you don’t know her well it might be a bit akward to just meet up and tell her how you feel.
There’s 2 really good phero’s in particular that will help you with communication; Instant Openness and Instant Honesty. IO is really great for boosting general conversation as it makes you and those around you more comfortable and chatty. It increases the quantity of conversation. IH on the other hand increases the quality of conversation as it creates a deep and intimate feeling, so it’s great for relationships and heart-to-heart convo’s
If you are feeling a bit nrevous then Instant Shine would be brilliant. It pretty much does what it says on the bottle…it makes you shine. IS gives you a mood and confidence boost, and just makes people want to be around you.
Hope that helps. Let us know if you have any questions
I actually do know her pretty well but we haven’t ever had a deep conversation like that so I’d just like a little extra help in that area. Those three products were the ones I was looking at so I’ll probably get them, thanks. I get the feeling Instant Shine is kind of an all around product, is that right?
All those three are social phero’s, and I think technically they are all considered all rounders, but I think IS and IO are that more so than IH. Personally I think IH is more specific for situations when you want that initmate feeling and a more personal conversation.
IS is great on it’s own or with any phero combo… I can’t think of a situation when it’s not a good idea to spritz a li’ll bit of IS
If you’re looking for something to help the conversation flow, to make it easier to talk about intimate issues, then I agree with Xiphoid. Instant Honesty is the way to go.
It is geared to extend a feeling of trust, to make others (and yourself) feel more confident and comfortable opening up and talking. It can sometimes cause others to blurt out more than they meant to say, so bear that in mind if people start surprising you with what they say.
Also, you will be affected by the pheros that you wear. Some wear IH on the backs of their heads, so that the pheros do not automatically waft up their nose. It helps diminish the “blurting” effect on yourself.
Now I have a completely unrelated question. You said that you’re 18 years old, but to the left of your post, your information reads that you’re 26. Which one is it?
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Instant Honesty’s a good recommendation I think. In addition to IH, you could try Instant Gentleman. That could help her trust you more, which would help her open up even more.
