Hi everyone!
I’m 36, caucasian and living in Pennsylvania. My main goal is to get more positive reactions with girls in general. I’m usually not bad at having nice conversations after a common friend helps with the introduction, but it’s always been kind of hard for me to be able to make the initial approach and start a conversation with complete strangers.
The other “problem” is that I’m mostly a very nice guy, which usually lands me in the just-friends zone. This wasn’t a problem while I was married, but now that I’m back in the game I’m looking for something that would let me pass this barrier.
Since I found this forum I’ve spent a couple of hours reading all the interesting stories and reports from so many users and now feel ready to give it a shot myself. So far I’m inclined to the “feel good” and “ice breaker” properties of Instant Shine and Instant Openness respectively, but I’m definitely open to any suggestions from the experienced users.
If you tell us a little more about yourself, you can qualify for a 25$ gift certificate !
-Why don’t you tell us a little about your personality?
-What exactly are you looking for in terms of a response? (do you want her to be “in the mood” more often, pay more attention to you, etc.) Don’t limit this answer to what pheromones you’ve seen on here, some of the members here know some amazing combinations to get that exact result you’re looking for!
-Which of the products have caught your eye so far and why?
This is a great community so stick around and good luck!
Heya King Size Dub!
You have come to the right place to find out about pheros and how they can help with social interaction! By now, you are probably curious about the $25 gift certificate offer. You have made a great start toward qualifying for it by letting us know how old you are, what you are looking for, where you are located and letting us know a little bit about who you are. This is a great start but to really be able to help you, we will need to pry a bit more. You said introductions are hard for you, what presents the biggest obstacle to just going up to a good looking woman and talking? Is it the idea of the approach, or are you fine til you start talking? How does an interaction go with an attractive woman from the point when you see her and think, “wow, I would like to be with her”? What type of women are you hoping to interact with, cougars, same age or younger? If you’re going for younger women, do you yourself look/act younger?
I know I must come of like an inquisitor here, but I’m not trying to be nosy, the reason that I ask is that among the products offered by androtics are those that offer the benefits of increased self-confidence that can enhance your stones so that you can make the approach, and those that help you esteem wise so that when you do make your approach, you are not tripped up in your delivery.
Right off the bat, with the information you have provided already, I would say that IShine is going to be a greatbet it’s like spray on charisma and I have had some great experiences with it. If you’re going for younger women, it also gives you a more youthful vibe.
Another recommendation is Instant Gentleman. Not only does I/G help in similar ways as ISine with charisma and a younger vibe, but it also enhances your status and gives you the vibe of being trustworthy. If self confidence and coming off as “smooth” is what you feel you need, you can’t beat A314. A314 is powered by alpha androstenone to have you come off as the dominant alpha male kind of guy that women generally find very appealing. I save my A314 mainly for business type situations but have had some interesting results while wearing for social type interactions as well.
To avoid the dreaded “friend zone” you may want to look at Turn Up the Heat. TUTH telegraphs that you are a virile sexy man looking for sex right now. Not recommended for work situations or anywhere that engaging in overtly sexual behavior would be considered inappropriate but you likely want to have some on hand for when you want the friendly interactions to go animal.
Welcome again to the forum, best of luck and enjoy your phero adventure!
Hey Chris, thanks for your feedback.
Well, I guess my biggest obstacle when approaching good looking women is that basic fear of being rejected. For some reason I have never been really interested in the one-night stand kind of deal. I usually lean towards the girls that I feel will make me happy in more than one way.
I guess all this has limited the amount of practice I’ve had in my life. Most of my friends don’t seem to care at all when they get rejected since they weren’t that interested in the first place, so they simply move on to their next target. But in my case, I only think of making a move if I really like the girl, which makes it a lot more risky and therefore I often end up doing nothing.
Now, even when I’m able to overcome my fear and the conversation starts flowing nicely, I usually tend to screw things up by being mr. nice guy. But I’m definitely ready to change my ways and that’s why I’m here.
Also, I’m interested in younger women since I look, act and feel a lot younger. Your recommendations sound very good but I do have one question regarding the IG:
On the product description it says:
“Also great for younger men who want to seem older than their years.”
So I’m guessing I should avoid this one for the time being, right?
IO will open up the girls and make them want to talk to you. It gives you an edge in approaching girls.
Shine will boost your confident and uplift your mood.
AMMO will make them attracted to you. It can bring you way from the friend zone.
I have included a link in this email to help you better understand A314 and instant gentleman.
A great ice breaker is what you and the others have already said, instant openness. Instant shine is just a great all around product to make you feel uplifted and because of that you give off this vibe that will draw others to you.
Because of your age and the picture you drew from the information you gave I will definitely try instant jerk and tuth. I would not totally loose my nice guy appeal but so you can be more edgy.
This is a great place for information and for tips to use these products. The men can offer the best advice on how to up your game.
Actually one of our resident long time experts, bossshank has posted that while he does not contest that I/G can give younger guys a more mature vibe, he reports that as an “older” guy 40’s, I/G gives him a younger vibe. His comparison between A314 vs I/G can be found at this link:
See the first paragraph. Apologies to bossshank, I totally spaced on his handle and failed to credit his excellent post on my first attempt. I had been approached by a much younger woman while wearing I/G so in my experience I can attest to this as well…