Hi, I am a 23 year old male living in Southern California. I am currently going to College and studying for my B.S. in Computer Science. I also work full-time.
I have never really had a girlfriend for various reasons, not that I haven’t tried, but things never seem to work out. I attribute part of that to the fact that I have a hard time talking to new people. Once I get started in a conversation, I am usually prefeclty fine. I am interested in more of a relationship than just a random girl. But, I would like to do a little looking around before I settle down for good. I am laid back and easy going, but I get caught up with everything going on and I just want to relaxand get something more in life.
I am here because I have tried a few things and I still have some trouble. I kind of feel if I could “see” that a girl has interest in me that I would be more confident. I was hoping for some that acts like an “ice breaker.” I understand that I have to work at it.
I have read a little bit on the forum here and kind of understand what is going on. I first heard of this in a movie, but I know how movies are so I was a little skeptical. After doing some reading I am really willing to try this out, I am just not sure where to start. I am kind of excited about esperimenting with the various mones.
You already got the suggestions on products from jamesbonded that i would also suggest. Instant openness is going to help you with that approach anxiety, and help to open you and others around you up more, and conversations will flow easily. THe instant shine will give you a slight confidence boost, and make you feel more upbeat, witty, and outgoing.
Ammo is a general attractant and is scented at cologne strength, so unlike the instants how you can cover them with your own cologne, this one becomes slightly more tricky, and your scents can clash, so it is generally used by itself as a stand a lone daily cologne, and is suitable for pretty much any venue. Just make sure you start out with 1 spray and increase to two only if needed and there are no adverse results. You are still relatively young and this mone has -none in it which can OD quickly if you produce a lot naturally on your own so that is why it is necessary to find your sweet spot with it.
Mones can help you in your life but you also need to put yourself out there and they are not a magical potion like in the movies. They are seen as a player on your team and giving 10% whereas the other 90% is dictated by you. You cant sit in a corner all night with mones on and expect women to come over to you. You need to get out there and interact and learn to recognize the indicators of interest from the girls, and the rest should follow.
IG is also something you may want to look into. It will give you a confidence boost, and it also portrays that you are a cool guy and garners you respect and that you would be good bf material !
Hope this helps a bit and feel free to ask any further questions !
Thanks jamesbonded and Katalyst for the suggestions and the welcome.
That makes a lot of sense, and is definitely something I will do.
For the sweet spot do you recommend just doing one product at a time until I find it and then trying combos? Is there a better way? I did read Steve’s post about that, but I wasn’t 100% sure.
I was looking on the SmartMones website and I saw that they have “To Go” items. Are those the same formulations as the regular sprays? The webite made it seem like they were stronger, but I am still trying to understand everything.
For your sweet spots I would try it one at a time. For example with TUTH your sweet spot could be 1 spray. However if you used TUTH with 2 sprays plus IS 3 sprays you could have that new sweet spot specifically with TUTH + IS. Check the link on my sig, it’ll show you how to find your sweetspot, Steve did a great writeup on it.
The togos are the same formula as in whats in it as long as its at the same strength, they also can come in 2x or even up to 4x although i have not seen them offered at that dosage in a while. The only difference is size and price and the fact that a togo has about 80 something % (spray size) of that of a larger 30mL bottle which means that if you do your testing with the togos you may have to take that into consideration that you are getting slightly more application with the larger bottle.
But its recommended that you use to gos usually first the get the effects and then purchase the larger bottles once you decide you like that product enough and can gauge the reaction. I loved instant shine and will continue to buy that in the 30 mL now that i blasted through the to go when i first started.
