Hey FrankSum,
Welcome to the forums. First and foremost believe that attractiveness is both an external and internal quality, don’t ever sell yourself short.
For professional development I would go with A314 and some Instant Shine. That gives you the respect and trust vibe that many of us in this field look to get.
For attraction hits I would definitely go with AMMO, and since you’re older AMMO2x might work out better for you.
here’s also a list of all the AD products that are out there for men.
Good luck and keep asking questions as they come up, we’ll be more than happy to help