My Name is Jonell, I am 29 and a male from Philadelphia, PA.
I have been looking for a good smelling cologne that could help me get more attention (in a good way); which is why I found my way here.
Is there something that can help me become more of the “life of the party”? I like to think I am pretty good looking (but not always the most attractive around), and I dress very nice. I am a little shy, so it would help if I had people coming up to me. I see it happen to other guys all the time.
Also, is there any suggestion what to use while at work, to help still gain attention and respect from my coworkers and bosses?
Some people can just walk in the room and have everyone’s eyes on them, like they are looking up to that person… I would like to have that once in a while.
Something in the consumer line would probably be a good place to start.
Ammo seems to be the product most advised for a first purchase. It will certainly get you noticed and it has a benificial effect on your confidence. Comes in two different scents, F21 and F22, beyond that, it can be customised to any Androtics scent for an extra charge. Akuto is a personal favourite of mine.
Socials, such as Instant Shine or Instant Openess are also great for easing and increasing interaction whilst IG and particularly A314 do affect your perceived status considerably. With positive self-effects as well. They can be used on their own, or to moderate/change the effects of more sexual pheros like Ammo and TUTH (these two are probably pretty unsuitable for work)
For work, I would say that A314 is head and shoulders above everything else, in all sorts of ways.
Plenty more good information and experience in here if you take a little time to read before you take the plunge and order.
One thing you want to note is that pheromones will not do work for you, you have to show the side of you that you never did before; they give you an edge over people. So when you see women or other men going up to a particular guy, it’s because they’ve already established the relationship that makes them crave walking up to him.
It seems like a314 might be perfect for you. It’s a mix that’s very business orientated. You can combine a314 with IH so that people in your workplace will trust and respect you (IH has an effect where people begin to trust you).
If you’re shy, get some IO. Maybe CTTM2.
Are these your only goals? You aren’t here to try to attract more women in your life? Tell us a little more with what you want to do and who you want to do it to.
Mobocaster made a great recommendation for you already.
I agree with AMMO and A314, those two are my favorites in the consumer line. You said you are a little shy and I think that CTTM (Found in the women’s spray to-go) can also work very well for you. Personally, I like that better than Instant Openness. CTTM just has more substance and enough ice breaker to make most of your interactions more meaningful than the dreaded conversations we all have fallen into when meeting people.
I’ll defer fully to your knowledge of CTTM P51. I’ve not worked my way along to that one yet but one day!
Roland also makes an excellent point - Pheros are only one part of the overall package and you would be well advised to begin looking at all aspects of your behaviour, body language and presentation - Then you will really know how to turn heads.
Again, plenty of good advice and pointers to more information are in here too.
You will need that special ingredient I believe all men have planted in their dna to assist them in being hunters so the human race can live on called : CONFIDENCE!
You received some great pheromone advice. Remember that when using A314 you have to get out of your shell and approach the ladies or it won’t work.
Good luck and keep us updated on what’s going on with you.
