Hello

Hi, My name is Ron, I am a 30 year old male and from Trenton, NJ.
I am new to using pheromones, but have always been interested in them. I guess now maybe it is time to take a plunge. I do have a question or two.

I am hoping to propose to my girlfriend soon, and hoping I can start using something to help seal-the-deal :wink: Is there a preferred pheromone for someone who just wants a female to feel more comfortable and trusting? (I hope I am putting that right).

I feel odd saying this, but the other thing would be that I am trying to spice things up in bed. Is there anything to help get her in the mood and willing to open up to new things (we have been together for 4 years)?

Thanks in advance for any advice you guys/girls can give,
Ron

Hi Ron. Proposing is a big thing and I personally think you already can seal-the-deal without pheromones, but if you do need some I recommend Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty allows me and other people to become comfortable and most of the time, they share a lot of information no regular person can usually obtain.

For bedtime activities I recommend TuTH (Turn Up the Heat) or Ammo. TuTH can really turn on women for as males get older, they don’t produce a lot of pheromones at an earlier age. It’s more “animalistic” in a way. Both TuTH and Ammo contains -none, but Ammo is supposed to be a well rounded product. Think TuTH for SEX NOW while Ammo for sexy vibes.

You could throw a little Instant Openness in there to so she could actually try out new things. Most of the time in a relationship communication is the key to many locks

Welcome Ron, to the forum!!!

whs06c has some good recommendations for you. I like the TUTH for SEX NOW while Ammo for sexy vibes! lol!

I would, though, be inclined to recommend IH for you as well as AMMO to start. Women want not only the sexy vibe from a man but to feel they can really open up. IH will do that for you. IO will open the gates of communication, but IH will give you the nuance and quality of communication. Of course, you NEED to listen intently! Work that combo into several times you’re together and see what happens.
I’d also suggest you check out the link on my sig to find your ‘sweet spot’ on mones. That way you know how much to apply.
Some will suggest 1 spray of AMMO and 2 to 3 from IH. Really, it will depend on the combination mone and your physiology.

Hope to hear from ya with your thoughts!!! BTW, If you haven’t gotten a GC, you may be looking for one real soon in your inbox!!!

Welcome to the forum Ron!

You’ve been given some great advice already. I wanted to second instant honesty(trust and intimacy) and ammo(appropriate sexy), and maybe a little TUTH if you think things are headed to the bedroom. I think a to go bottle of it would be just fine. Then again, after you try it you might want the bigger bottle. :slight_smile:

Also, like foneguy was getting at, nobody can really tell you that you need x amount of sprays. I mean they COULD, but its different for everyone. Also, there are 2 different kinds of sweet spots. Theres the amount you spray for getting good GENERAL results, and theres the amount that works best on an individual person. For your case, I’m sure thats what you’re looking for, so see how your future fiance reacts at different doses. If you follow steves thread, you should have it figured it fairly quickly.

Let us know your thoughts/questions/decisions :slight_smile:

Hi glad you joined. Sounds like you have big plans. To be honest, if you have been together for 4 years, she probably likes you. :slight_smile: You won’t have any trouble sealing the deal on the proposal.

Everyone has recommended a great product in IH. I won’t elaborate on that any further. TUTH is also great for bed time. I won’t go any further into that either. There are some other products to try, but you should stick with consumer products at first.
I’m recommending that you also get A314. It’s worth it. Women like to feel secure and they like to be around people that are respected.

Welcome to Pherotalk Dharma!

You got some great suggestions. Congratulations in advance and I know I will make a lovely bridesmaid.

Your gc was issued. :slight_smile:

Hi Ron!

You a Lost phanboy? The Dharma suit gave you away!!! :smiley::smiley::smiley:

Oh, I want to suggest you look through the Sticky’s at the top of the Intro’s page to get your Thread in the Green Answered column.

Some very good info provided there for your mone journey!