Welcome to Pherotalk Jizmaxtgusher!
You already received some good advice from tacarov but telling us more about your personality will definitely assist.
From reading your intro I can assume you are the shy type that girls tend to take advantage of but that is because those are the kind of men girls tend to take as friends and nothing else.
We have come across many situations like this and the men will be a great help once you get started.
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