Hey and welcome to the forum, nzkiwinz, 
. Nice intro. From what you’ve said, I’d suggest Instant Shine and Instant Openness and Instant Honesty.
Instant Shine gives you and your personality a shine, so to speak. People want to be near and smile a lot. Lots of people get the same self effect, which is a bonus.
Instant Openness is a light easy communication mone. It encourages easy, friendly communication. Quantity light conversations as opposed to anything to indepth.
Instant Honesty promotes a deeper communication, quality conversation.
Test them out, one at a time to find your sweet spot; then combine for fun and lots of laughs. As to the seduction factor; quite a few of the experienced guys are saying that now, they’re having an awesome time with the socials. The guys will be by in a bit to help you further. Welcome and have fun.
Try these reads:
Intro To Mones by Steve O (An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration)
Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies
The Snooks Big Book O’ Pheros For Rookies:
http://www.pheromonetalk.com/mens-ph…html#post66537