Hello Edward,
wellcome to pherotalk.
Several years ago i came here for the same reason as you. I wasnt looking for the female attraction pheromones. Mine main interest was in the social products.
From the Androtics product line Instant Shine is a must have as a base.
Then its up to you to decide on IO or IH
IO is more chattier and careless (fun)
while IH will get you in a deeper conversations. So 2-4 sprays of IS + 2-3 Sprays of IO will get you started. (but you have to experiment with the dosages to see what works best for you)
Also consider if IG or A314 would be suitable for your needs.
I think IG for you will be way better then A314 for now.
i will suggest also to take the time and look at this topic
Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies 
Wow Astrea you are quick 