Welcome to Pherotalk Greg! ,
Sugarplum has given you some good advice
“fairy mones” lol
A lot of people have the same goal as you so I’m sure that you will fit right in. 
I think you will want to check out ITNerd’s journal and a post called “Friend zone? IJ and TUTH are your friend zone busters. (Friend zone? IJ and TUTH are your friend zone busters.)”
You mentioned, “I am optimistic in finding aids that will augment my personal growth and confidence
I would suggest A314: It’s the best all around product. I It has an alpha/leader/status vibe to it. Many people have posted about how A314 has helped them in their careers and how the benefits made A314 pay for itself. It also signals to the ladies that, “there is something special about this guy.” K-train and a bunch of other members have commented on this effect and dubbed it “the fallout effect”. A314 is such a great product that it has its own private section of the forum. Nuff said
You also mentioned aids in “compatibility with friends, family, and strangers.”
I would say Ammunition (social/sexy product)
And Instant Shine: This helps to make you and the people around you feel good/happy. I like this one because people like to be around happy people.
You can see my personal experiences with all of the mones posted above in my journal titled “my notes”
You may want to consider posting a journal- they are very helpful in your journey into the world of pheromones