Hi Alex - Welcome to Pherotalk. 
Many people come here looking to help secure a rellationship with pheros and yes, they can help in some ways but you also need to be able to work on the personal/social aspects as well.
If you could tell us a little more about yourself, your situation and how this has come about, we can maybe offer better advice and point you at possible solutions. You also earn a useful GC to help start things off. This gives an idea of the sort of info we look for:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
This thread also gives a lot of the basic info on choosing and using pheros to get you started: