Hi,
My name is Brandon and I’m from south Texas…I’m a white male, and I was wondering about pheromones and if they could help turn the heat back with me and the mother of my child…we are no longer together, and I’m not saying we won’t get back together, I’m just looking for something that will help bring down that one last barrier that is keeping us apart physically…I mean we are basically still in a relationship, although we aren’t, but there is no sex…is there anything that can help with that hesitation barrier? I can feel she wants to, but she stops herself…
Welcome to Pherotalk.
Firstly, no phero will salvage a damaged relationship by itself - You and your partner do need to find ways to explore and deal with the issues between you by more conventional means.
That said, pheros can help guide feelings and emotions in ways that make this easier and more comfortable to do.
You don’t say how old you are/she is - and that could be an important factor here but in the meantime, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine would be two across the board serious contenders. IH - Helps deepen/restore trust, closeness and promotes interpersonal bonding. It also helps lubricate those things that need to be said - And this can be a double edged sword. So to help keep the focus on the good/happy things between you, I would suggest you steer it with Instant Shine, which makes for a mature, comfortable, feelgood but still realistic conversation vibe.
Now if this helps restore the feelings that lead to more sexual interaction between you, TUTH is a sexual product designed to be most useful for people in established relationships. Don’t use it without the IH/IS combo (or some other social moderation) first though as it can be worse than useless if your OH is not feeling a fair bit of attraction to you in the first place as its overt androstenone can make for angry/aggressive and “get the hell away” responses instead.
However, if she is younger, the more sociable/balanced feel of Ammo might be a more subtle and suitable attractant, to begin with anyway. ![]()
Again, depending on age, an androsterone product like IG with its smart/capable/high status feel might help restore status/value in her perception of you - especially if maturity/stability/responsability is an issue.
Welcome Brandon,
If there is some way your relationship with the mother of your child can be salvaged and you guys can make the ultimate step to each other which is marriage that would be awesome.
I pray it works out.
Like mobo said pheromones don’t work that way but hoping these mones can open up doors to assisting you guys to getting back what was lost.
Your gc was issued!