Hello, I am new to the forum and I am hoping to gain some kind of advantage with my wife, because I never seem to stop pissing her off, and I don’t think that it’s best for our family to divorce. I love her and our family that we have created. I am doing whatever I can to bring us back together but it always seems something’s missing. I’m hoping pheromones will fill in the “somethin” that can help bring us back together.
When we fight, to my sadness, my wife is not the type to let me go work it out in the bedroom. Rather, it’s “don’t touch me,” for like MONTHS. It really sucks and I’m kind of at my wits end. I know she’s at her wits end in her universe, by the things I do that piss her off, but there has to be something to cut the tension between us, a conduit if you will. Sex could be that knife, but getting her in the mood has certainly been a challenge.
I’ve never had a problem getting the ladies. I guess this product will help in that regard as well, if it comes to that. I’m hoping not, because sex with my wife is great, ahem…when (and if) it happens. I know that sex is absolutely healthy and good in so many ways, but I haven’t found the magic elixir that helps me and my wife forget our problems outside the bedroom when we are IN the bedroom. Gosh, even getting her to even consider it seems so far away…
The first thing I will tell you after 20+ years of marriage is that a marriage is about a relationship. And no amount of pheros is going to improve that relationship. It is going to take a lot of hard work and maybe some counseling from what I read.
The second thing is that if you are or are willing to do that hard work the pheros can certainly help. I would ask you to read the thread in my signature block for married guys. It may well be of some help.
Once you read that through - and the links to the other articles - please come back and tell me what you think.
Once we get there I will feel like we can talk more about products and strategies.
Hope this helps - please read and let me know what you think.
I agree with Boss, I’m not so sure that using pheros can overcome a deep relationship problem. At best, they will be a band-aid. Instant Female Magic might help somewhat when you’re out of bed, TUTH can help when you’re in bed.
Can you describe what your wife is like, personality-wise? Is she shy or outgoing? Laidback or hyper? What is your personality like?
I didn’t have any luck with my ex with TUTH. She’d comment on how I smelled nice, then leave. If a woman doesn’t have sex on her mind, it’s not going to put it on her mind. (by the way, the sex with my ex when she wasn’t the ex was fantastic for both of us. It’s not going to hold a relationship together by itself.)
I would say you need to talk it out. Focus on pheromones that promote good feelings/thoughts and then the burden is on YOU to act accordingly. I would try a combination of IH and IFM. I’ve never tried IG or IS, but those might be worth your research.
Tell your wife you want to make things better.
Please forgive my openness, but be prepared for her to admit she’s done.
If things are salvagable, TUTH is a fantastic product, but if you decide to use it, I’ve had best results starting with a small amount applied to my neck, then adding more as the night goes on.
Good luck, from the bottom of my heart. It speaks miles that you’re trying to make things better.
Mones can only do so much, I suggest you not look into the sexual products right now concentrate more on mones that will enhance your communication. Know that they wont change the relationship they will enhance it and open up both of your feelings and emotions up so you can step in and make the changes needed to better the relationship.
IH for a feeling of closeness and connection. It opens up deep intimate feelings and conversation. This will help you comfort the problem and work it out.
IFM to calm and ease her and give her a comfortable contented feeling.
Ishine to energize uplift charm warm and just make her feel great to be with you.
Take care of the root of the problem and the sex part will fall into place.
Now there is one other thing that you need to think about doing that will also help. Stop doing whatever it is that your doing that pisses her off.
I know she’s at her wits end in her universe, by the things I do that piss her off, but there has to be something to cut the tension between us, a conduit if you will. Sex could be that knife, but getting her in the mood has certainly been a challenge. 
I know that sex is absolutely healthy and good in so many ways, but I haven’t found the magic elixir that helps me and my wife forget our problems outside the bedroom when we are IN the bedroom. Gosh, even getting her to even consider it seems so far away…
