Hi there.
No worries. Maybe A314 is not the first choice you should have made, but it´s an excelent product, top notch, and you won´t be desappointed.
A314 has an effect, no doubt, but somehow it can sometimes be subtle.
The first three times I used it, was somhow unable to detect the hits. However, if you use it as explained here, How to find your sweet spot… - PheroTalk Pheromone Research Forum, you will noice a difference between use and rest days.
Also, being in a black metal band, I guess some intimidation can be handy.
Talk to you soon.