I’m Darren, age 21, Male and i come from Little Island Singapore, which is located in Asia
Anyway, i’m quite new to pheromones and i happen to bump onto this website while randomly surfing the net. After reading some posts which other users have posted in this forum, it started to spark my interest in pheromones and i have decided to try some to see if it actually helps me to mingle with people.
My friends would describe me as a very shy person that only opens up to people after some time. They feel that i’m quite hard to approach initially as i do not speak much(except for people whom i have known longer).
So, i hope with the help of pheromones, it can help me socialize better with strangers and mingle better with new found friends.
yeah, thats about it.
Can anyone introduce me some pheromones/starter combination for beginners?
I’m looking for something that would help others open themselves to me better/or me opening myself to them better lol.
I feel that the IO and IH combi would be good. or should i try IO and IS combi instead?
I’m super shy in person also and wanted to recommend Instant Shine and Instant Openness both for making you feel good and for making others feel comfortable around you. Working on that shyness thing is a bit easier when you feel like a million bucks and when people are already relaxed and happy to be around you. That having been said, the pheromones don’t do all of the work and congruence is important. You can wear the IS and IO, but if you’re frowning all the time, for example, it won’t make it easier for others to want to get to know you.
But yes, once your Gift Card has been issued, I’d play with some of the To Go sizes of different pheromones to see what works for you. It looks like you’ve done some research, and I think the IS and IO are great places to start for the shyness.
Yeah i understand that pheromones don’t do magic and its ultimately myself that i gotta change. i don’t frown all the time it’s just that i seem to have nothing much to talk about with people i just got to know
And i think that what you said about IS sounds very true! I would be more confident and talk more if i feel better about myself. I should really try out the IS.
Hmmm as for where i’ll wear it, i suppose i would spray IS on my neck so that it’ll have a better effect on myself(?) and probably the IO on my wrists. Any recommended place on where i should wear it?
I didn’t think you frowned all the time, lol I was just giving an example. So for example if you wore IS and acted upset, you’re gonna confuse people. If you wore IS and acted happy, people will be more inclined to respond positively to that. So your actions coupled with the pheromones will get you some nice results.
Wrists and neck are pretty safe bets, but sometimes it takes a few tries before finding your “sweet spot”. I was wondering also where you think you’ll be going when you wear the pheromones? Work? School? Clubs? Are you a student?
As for where i’ll be wearing, i would most likely be wearing it more to school now and if it helps I would be using it for work(in the near future as it is my last semester of studying).
I was also wondering if it would be too much for me to use 3 or more mones at the same time but at a lesser quantity? Such as this combo- IO for openers,IS for confidence and energy, TUTH to turn up the heat literally.
No it is not too much to wear three products at the same time but you have to make sure that the three products are going to help you do what you want to do.
I would send Looifookmeng a PM and ask him a few questions. He is from your part of the world and often these products work very similarly for people of the same or about the same ethnic background. In particiular I am not a big fan of using TUTH as an opening gambit. It has to be buffered by IO or IShine if you use it for clubbing. IMO it is better to run with Ammo if you are going to use something for general attraction.
In particular I would as looifookmeng his thoughts on Ammo vs TUTH vs IG. And take into account he is a more experienced user when he answers. another product that seem to go over well with asian women is A314. It gives the wearer a very alpha leader kinda vibe that often implies success to a lot of women.
It is hard to find something to talk about with someone you don’t know. Yeah there are people who are super awesome at that but if they come across someone with short, unresponsive answers even they can’t bypass that.
What you are experiencing is very common and once you start using these products and breaking out of your shell you will be amazed how easy it is to approach and ease into conversations.
