Hellooo! new member here from FL!(long post!)

whats up guys/gals! new to the board here! i guess ill start by telling you a little bit about myself and ill go into plenty of detail. so its pretty long. lol. well for starters, im 18 years old, and im 6’3". im a very chill, laid back person, although sometimes i can be outgoing. i am not a cocky person at all what-so-ever. i have a great sense of humor and i love to make people laugh. i tend to get along with everyone no matter the age, and i have never had to get into a fight! i guess that further reinforces that! lol. also ive been told i have a very humble personality, with no flaws; even i do have a few that not many of my friends notice. i used to be a pretty heavy kid when i was in middle school/begging of high school. i got sick of being the fat friend, getting picked on (by my own friends!!) and being a third wheel and all of that stuff. so i said enough is enough. i started working out like crazy and watched what i ate. 2 years later and i am now a tall, slim, and somewhat toned guy. because of my history, i do have some self-concious issues still. and because of that i have a little bit of trouble breaking the ice with girls. after breaking the ice, i usually can do ok with the conversation, and i can make them laugh alot, but i end up stuttering and getting nervous. and if there is a silence, or there is a “awkward silence” i usually panic and try to think of something else to say to keep the conversation going. but i try too hard and thats all i can think about is restarting the conversation. but i end up thinking about it for too long and it just ends up being a realllllllyyyy long silence. also, in general, i can be really shy around new people, or around very attractive girls. i try to talk and start conversations but something always holds me back from doing so. So, now i am turning to pheromones to help me out a little bit. ive been lurking this forum for awhile just reading and browsing around and i thought i’d just join because i really want to give alot of these products a try. i have tried a pheromone cologne before. it was called “ice breaker”. now before you guys start talking smack about it (lol) i must say it actually did work a little bit. it helped me hook up with 2 girls that were wayy out of my league. and this was back when i was still a little heavy. but its meh.. ok.. i really want to start trying some different combos of mones that are on here but i need some advice on what to get. i was thinking about getting: alpha A314, TUTH, IShine, IO, IH. oh and spaceland just because it sounds so awesome. lol. oh and when ammo is back in stock i was gonna pick a bottle of that up too. ive been reading that some of these products can cause girls to be clingy, or it makes them not shut the hell up. but im cool with that. i kinda like clingy girls for some reason.. probably cause it makes me feel useful or something. lol. but i give you guys/gals some things that im looking for with the mones:
-more confinece. i also want other people to see me as a confident person.
-more self-confidence (especially)
-want to be respected more
-make me calmer, more relaxed around girls
-be more talkative
-breaking the ice
-talking/breaking the ice with new girls i meet.
-also make them more talkative and comfortable around me.
-also to attract girls sexually.
…and thats all i can think of right now.. so with all of that said, if any of you guys/gals can give any suggestions of which mones to buy and if my selection is a good one. also if anyone has good combos for the different mones to get the results im looking for it would be greatly appreciated! :slight_smile:

HI there,

Welcome to the forum.

I would suggest IO, IG and Spaceland.

IO will be the ice breaker. It can open up girls and make them want to talk to you. You will have the conversation going.

IG will give you some confident socially. Girls will also think you are capable, trusted and reliable man.

Spaceland is to make you and the people around you more talkative. It add fun to the fun.

Good luck to you.

Cheers

Welcome to the forum!

I agree with James. I’d also suggest you try ammo when you can, it’s an excellent all round attractant, very popular with members of the forum.

Best of luck and be sure to return and let us knwo about your results :slight_smile:

One of the guys will be online again soon to dish out gift certificates :smiley:

Hello Confuscious (lol) and welcome to the forum.

Glad to see you you here.

One of the first things you ought to do is read the thread in my signature block about what pheros can and can’t do. Then read the thread for married guys. Now I know you are not married or anywhere close but some of the same concepts apply. pay particular attention to the part about building up with the social products and not trying to brute force the issue with straight none.

Now I asked you to read all that - with a lot of experienced users - to include the thoughts of women here - before I gave you my two cents worth.

I would recommend the following:

Ammo - when it comes back in stock.
Instant Gentleman - as a daily base - to give you a cool smooth vibe. Plus it can make you seem a little older as a result which can be a plus.
IO - to help with those intitial conversations.
IH - to help with feelings of connection and to deepen those conversations.
IShine - to help people around you feel happy to be near with you.

women love a man who makes them feel happy, can talk to them and make them laugh and makes them feel sexy. These products will help you do just that.

But remember - they will only help you do it. The real work - as with anything worth doing - will be up to you.

Good luck and let us know what you decide to do.

Welcome to Pherotalk ConfusedOne!

I read your introduction and it doesn’t seem that you are confused at all. You seem like someone is very much aware of himself and what is going on. You might just be a bit confused as to what pheromones to get.

Bossy made some great recommendations. Instead of the A314 you want to try IG because it will make you seem like that dependable , smooth guy but more warm and approachable which is what you want.

Instant shine has great self effects and will draw others to you. Don’t wanna repeat seeing that you got the pheromone advice you need.

We are all about progress here. We all have things we need to work on and no one is perfect. You already started here and I hope that you continue to work on yourself and always strive to be that person you know you can be. We are all here to help because we may have different paths but we are all working on improving ourselves and thus the world.

Your GC will be issued soon!

Hello Oh’ confused one. Once upon a time I was confused; now I’m merely baffled.

I’d echo a lot of what the others have said. I especiallyt like IG which I think would be great for you. It gives you a smooth air of confidence and capability. It’s also a little less strident than A314 can be and can be warmer and therefore less likely to inhibit conversations (especially if you’re not all that good at initiating and driving them.)

I’d then say IO which should get the chat flowing nicely. You can use this quite heavily but it can be hard to get peopl to shut up when you do.

IH is perhaps one of my favourite products and one I overlooked for a long time. All that chat become just a little deeper when you use this and it works well with IG to give this sense of deep connection.

Be careful with TUTH if you do choose it. It can be very strong and as you’re young it could be easy to have the opposite effect than the one you want. Personally I’d wait on the Ammo. It’s good stuff.

Whatever you choose I hope you find what you’re looking for an that you have some fun.

oh my god. i leave for a day of work and come back and all of this is here! thank you guys/gals so much! it is greatly appreciated! i don’t even know who to pick for my best answer! they’re all good! haha.
i think i made up my mind on which pheromones im going to get.
IG, IO, IH, IS, spaceland, and ammo when it gets back in stock. and possibly CTTM? or should IO be enough?

but i have a couple questions. should i start with 1 spray of each and gradually work up? and where should i/ or where is the best place to apply each? or if there is a thread with some info/answer to my questions can someone point me in the direction of where its at?

i read both threads. thanks for the info!

i came to these forums already knowing that pheromones only do a little bit of the work. its mostly the person wearing them. they just help to give you a little boost. and yes i know it wont make girls start groping you or anything out of no where. LOL. i just want to use them so i can better initiate/start conversations with girls and to keep them going. also im using them to meet more people and stuff like that. but thanks again for info. :slight_smile:

I recommend you to try out one pheromone at a time, simply to understand the effect and to find your sweet spot.
Start with 1 spray for a few days and observe the effect. Observe body language, eye contact and so on. Increase accordingly and you will know the right number of spray.

As for application points. You can spray on neck, chest, arm, back of neck. Our body heat ill help to diffuse the pheromone.