Help explain this?

I used MX135 while meeting a potential target. We spent almost an entire night just talking and making out. It seemed that we could talk non stop and everything was great. We were obviously attracted to each other. Fast forward a little, we officially got together yay!
So I dont wear MX135 anymore and I noticed that we dont seem to talk as much in person. It’s usually from his end. However we do talk a lot on the phone and MX135 has nothing to do with that. He says that he’s speechless when he sees me and he can just stare at me. I also know he’s quite a private person and doesnt open up much. So Im wondering if MX135 helped him with that? Im a little bothered if MX135 could cause a change in behaviour because I enjoyed him when I was wearing MX135. But I dont want to rely on pheromones that much.
Lastly how long can the effects of MX135 last?

Thanks

The MX135 may well have helped him to feel more comfortable with you initially. And when you stopped using it, he continued to feel that way because that is how he feels anyway. The pheromones just helped him see the things he would have already seen in you anyway, just a little more quickly.

As you may know, pheromones only enhance whats already there, the pheros do 10% of the work, and you do the rest. The effects of MX135 should last between 3 to 5 hours. So its not the effects of the MX135 that are continuing to last, its the effects of the person that you are. :slight_smile:

The effect of MX135 lasts 4 to 6 hours.

I think I know what has you concerned. Your afraid that its the pheromones and not you that caused the attraction and you dont want to have to use them all the time to maintain that attraction.

No worries, pheromones dont work that way. They do not make people think your someone or something your not. It enhances who you already are. Think of it like makeup. Sure it enhances how you look but it doesn’t change you and if you take it off a guy who is interested is not going to change his mind. If he did he would not be a keeper anyways.

Its you he is attracted to not your pheromones. Your pheromones just signal and influence emotional response.

The reason he talked so much on his first exposure was as Sillykitty mentioned. The mix evoked a feeling of comfort and perked his interest. It was you who held his interest though. If you had nothing in common and there was no visual attraction to begin with there is not a pheromone in the world that would make a difference.

He may be more quiet when your not wearing the pheromones because thats in his nature but I am sure once your together for a while he will loosen up naturally.

That’s exactly what pheromones do though. Our emotions govern our behavior. Certain pheromone influence certain emotions which in turn influence behavior but they do not change the person.

Tisha

Poor, dude, has mercy on him, :slight_smile: "If he says that he’s speechless and he just stares at you… What do you think?:slight_smile: