Hi my name is Paula and I’m 18 years from Puerto Rico 
. I have a situation with my ex-boyfriend, I had broken up with him a long time ago(about a year) and we haven’t seen each other until a few days ago. We decided to go out together and I thought that he wanted to go out with me to maybe confess he still felt something for me but I got the exact opposite lol, he had told me he didn’t feel anything for me because it was over a year ago and he tried to like me again but it was all in vain, he was into some other things and he was ubber busy so he said. The thing is I had asked him for one last goodbye kiss and then I left heart-broken. The next day he called me and he said he wanted to go to my house and I was like “wtf??.. ok” and after that we went out and he was all touching my hair and calling me “cute” names and telling me some other stuff apart from the interrupting flying kisses and stuff. Somehow I think he still likes me but I’m not sure and I don’t want to ask him because maybe he’ll feel pressured to tell me and probably he wants to take things slow and steady. I came here to use pheromones to encourage him because I really wish to know without sounding so hostile, I wish to know which pheromones I need. Please help and thank you 
Hi Moonchaser8. Well, as far as female-specific pheromones go, I cannot help you, but to me your situation sounds like you could use Instant Honesty. I have to say I haven’t tried this myself yet (it’s certainly on my list though), but the reviews and reports on this site are from very reputable people and it sounds like it does very much what it says on the bottle (As do several other of the Instant line, which I have tried).
The Androtics site appears to sell Instant Honesty For Men (men) and IH For Women (women) - not sure what the diffs are, they may be quite subtle, I think the beta-androstenol is the main factor that encourages honesty.
Hi Paula,
I have no experience in women pheros but I can recommend something for you.
“Instant Honesty” Communication Pheromone for Women :: Spray Pheromones :: Androtics Direct/SmartMones (https://phera.com/)
That’s the link for Instant Honesty for women. It can help encourage your ex bf to tell you about what he wants from the relationship.
…and, Paula, if you try wearing the IH in such a situation you may want to wear it on your wrists, the back of your neck, or the hair at the back of your head - especially if the fella continues to play with it.
The thing is, if you wear the pheros where you can get a good smell of them yourself, like on the front of your neck, chest, or something - you are more likely to experience the self-effects of being honest yourself. Considering you are trying to get your ex to “show his hand” first, you might want to stay relatively free of the self-effects. In any event, be sure to do a trial run with a neutral third party before the mission-critical application with your ex!
This sounds pretty off. Could he be that he wanted to make it clear that he did not see romantic potential anymore but still wanted your body?
Time will tell what he is feeling, just have patience. Maybe it would be a good idea to keep the next few dates in public places, so he won’t get too too familiar on a physical level before you know how much he is into you.
Pherowise, honesty can help with the process of getting to know eachother better again. Since it has been a year, you’ll want to find out what he is like these days, what changed, what stayed the same.