also… since you are good at reading and looking, check out the reasons why you are only getting ‘friends’ instead of lovers:
good to have you aboard. I’m currently testing CTTM2, a mix that seems similar to Instant Honesty and Instant Openness.
either way it goes, the pheros that kitty pointed out are really good starters, especially for finding your ‘sweet spot’ of reactions, and verify that they actually DO work.
please read the thread “what pheros can and cannot do”, as well