Hi bassmaster109,
Good to have you in Pherotalk. So you are interested in trying out the pheros here, that’s good 
Ok for your situation there & i noticed that you are very young as i see your age, so i will recommend Instant Shine + Instant Openness plus Instant Honesty as Instant Shine will boost your confidence & Instant Openness will make you want to chat more & lastly Instant Honesty will be best suited for deeper & intimate relationship like make your best friend into a potiential girlfriend 
But i leave it to you to decide if you want to choose my recommendation.
If you want to know more about the Instants here, just click on these two links> mens pheromone guide & What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated