hey guys, I just signed up to learn more about pheromones and how they work. i’ve been lurking on the boards recently, reading some threads trying to get myself familiar with how everything works and operates.
a bit about myself and what I hope to gain from pheromones…i’m in my early 20s, still a virgin, not really good with girls, not really great with people early on…i have a bit of a social anxiety that prevents me with connecting with people sometimes. i’m kinda at a state of unease and nervousness when in social situations with people I don’t know. i think once the ice is eventually broken between myself and someone else, my true personality comes out and people like me…its just getting over that initial hump of trying to talk to someone I don’t know. I was looking at some of the smartmones products, and reading on the forums what products would be best to help me out. i’ve decided on ordering a bottle of Instant Openess, and Instant Gentleman…but before I order, I seek some advice from all of you if thats the best way to go.
the Instant Openess is so people might feel more inclined to start a conversation with me (and i’ve noticed that i can carry a conversation easier if someone else starts it with me)…i was also hoping that the phermones might effect me as well, and make me more willing to talk to strangers and such.
the Instant Gentleman is mainly because between the friends I have, i’m often the butt of jokes and such…nothing mean-spirited, but i’ve always wanted to be looked in a more serious and respectful light. I was also looking at the A314, but from what I read it’s a bit more for serious enviorments…i want respect, but I dont want to seem unapproachable. also, i would plan on wearing IG at work…my workplace is a bit more light-hearted and fun as compared to a serious office vibe, so i figured A314 might be too much.
I was also contemplating trying out a TO-GO bottle of Spaceland…i’m hesitant because it’s a test mix, and obviously i’m not familiar with pheromones enough to really be messing with experimental stuff…but from what i read, it just sounds so damn fun to use, and i think it might work with the IO and IG to help me better relax and open up to people. should i give some a try, or am I jumping the gun too early on that?
and one final question (sorry for the really long post, lol) is about the smell of this stuff…now, i’m not a guy that really wears cologne, so i don’t really have anything to cover the pheromones with. i understand that most of them are lightly scented, and i’m just wondering how strong that scent is. i work with a group of guys in a workshop, and i figured if i wore some of this stuff there (for the respect thing and such) and they smelled cologne on me, it might look a little weird. are these scents light enough to where most people won’t smell them on me unless they come really close? i’ve read on the main site that it compares to the strength of body wash or shampoo, which i’m comfortable with. i just hope it’s not as strong-smelling as cologne. i’m not sure if i want to smell like citris orange all day LOL
whew…lol…well, thanks guys for helping me out and i look forward to more posting and trying of the pheromone products. 
hope to get a discount my first time thanks