Hi Reidy
It is good that you decide to join this forum 
It is understandable to be skeptical at first 
Ok i see that you are planning to get some pheros from here but before that i suggest you read on this two links> Men Pheromone Guide (Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15) & What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers) before you make your order there
As for your situation there, i suggest Instant Openness as it is suitable for your situation there.