I’m Mike, an 18 year old male college sophomore (turning 19 soon). I live in Clinton, NJ but I go to college in PA. I came across the subject of pheromones while I was researching how to improve with women. I found this site after doing a google search for pheromones. I could’nt make heads or tails out of the info I found online; there are so many bogus review sites and conflicting opinions. Being a science geek, I went directly to PubMed to seek out some professional opinions, but it seems that even real scientists can’t agree on the existence of human pheromones, much less their effectiveness. I decided to conduct my own experiment to determine the truth, but many pheromones are so expensive, especially for a college student like me. Then, I found your site and saw that you offer a gift certificate and small bottles that I can test for a reasonable price, but I gave up. I thought that pheromones were basically too good to be true.
My story is a somewhat sad one. I have a rather introverted personality; I’ve always been very shy. I’m into computers, video games, and community service clubs. I used to play soccer, but I haven’t been on the team in several years. I got lucky senior year and got a girlfriend who was pretty cute and very sweet; I used to love being with her. She was very religious though, so we never went beyond cuddling and kissing. Her parents are missionaries, and they travel all over the world. Near the end of senior year, she told me that she and her parents were going to leave the country in July and not return for a long time. We decided that it would be best for us to break up before she left. Needless to say, I was heartbroken. I also had hoped to go to the University of Pennsylvania, but I didn’t get accepted. Combine those two things, and you have a recipe for a bad freshman year. I was depressed for most of my first year and pretty much tried to isolate myself. I didn’t want to talk to anyone. So, while everyone else was forming a social circle, I was alone wallowing in my self pity.
After a terrible (good academically, but bad socially) freshman year, I went home. I never bothered to keep up my high school friendships, so I came home to find that most of my friends had moved on. I spent my summer alone on my PC. While reading the news one day, I came across an article about teen sexuality, which conluded that the average American has intercourse at age 18. This caused my fragile psyche to crack entirely because I am still a virgin. I felt so inferior and worthless; even my previous girlfriend didn’t want me, I thought; we were really nothing more than very good friends who kissed once in a while.
One night, while I was in bed, I decided that I was going to do my best to change my situation. So, I began researching how to do so. A lot of the stuff that I found was geared towards cold approaching random women and didn’t seem relevant for me. I found one book written specifically for college called “Conquer your Campus” (CYC). I bought it, but I was really disappointed with it. It requires far too much background knowledge and basically assumes that you are already able to socialize and make friends easily. It also gives some really suspect advice such as asking the girl about her relationship status, then saying “I’ve been thinking about hooking up with you, and I didn’t want to ruin any great relationships.” Somehow, I can’t see that working. Implementing all of the stuff in this book is a big stretch for anyone who isn’t uber relaxed and confident, which I am clearly not.
So, I am five days into my sophomore year, and things aren’t going nearly as well as I’d hoped. I’ve been able to go out to lunch and hang out with some groups of guys, but most of them are commuters and loners; that’s a far cry from the “high-value” popular guys that CYC says you need to roll with to get girls. I approach those guys and introduce myself, but they don’t seem to want a whole lot to do with me. One girl approached me, introduced herself, and invited me to her club’s first meeting, but it is a RELIGIOUS CLUB. Again, all of the hot girls that I want don’t seem to want me very much. I say something like, “Hi. I’ve never met you before, what’s your name?” They, however, are all completely cold. They give me a one word answer, then go right back to texting. It’s starting to demoralize me. CYC says that you need to be the center of the party to attract most college women, but I haven’t even been invited to a single party. Our school doesn’t have any Frats or Sororities, so virtually all of the parties happen off campus. I would try to crash one, but I have no idea where or when they are held.
So, I’ve found myself at this site again. Pheromones seem a lot more believable to me now. I’ve studied the guys who all the girls want, and there seems to be nothing special about them. I am more physically attractive than almost all of them. I’m actually look good, and many of them don’t. Most of them are assholes too. Sure, they are popular, but it seems that I can’t be that popular even if I try to socialize. They just seem to connect with others and attract girls so easily. While I was pondering just what makes them so attractive, I thought back to pheromones. Maybe they just produce more pheromones that help them interact socially and trigger sexual attraction in women. After thinking of this, I immediately remembered this site.
I hope that covers everything. I’m excited to meet the people here and improve my social life and finally lose my virginity.
Can some people here suggest some good starting pheromone products?