Welcome Animal,
sorry to hear about your first experience there, what you got was on OD response so it did work but not the way you wanted. The products found here have been made with that in mind, ie AMMO has been designed for attraction but has other mones to help you not OD so easily.
I can concur with Maidenfan Instant Shine is amazing stuff as well for that social vibe
To help you out with finding the right dosage please see below article it is one of the most important you will read cause it teaches how NOT to get the reaction you had before.
Please feel free to post more and we will try to help you along
Good Luck my friend in mones!!!