Hi there.
Interesting Forum!
About myself: I’m a 5’9" 21 year old bike-riding, white, dark-featured, unscented (I don’t usually wear anything. no deodorant. nothing), flannel-wearing intellectual living in Minneapolis. I have a slim, muscular build, longish hair… I think I have nice eyes and facial structure, but poor skin.
I’m a fairly weird-in-a-good-way guy and CAN be super outgoing/confident, but it’s weird. It comes and goes… I’m not sure if it’s a diet thing, or a weather thing, or a sleep thing, but one day I am on top of the world and I can talk to anyone I want without qualm, but the next, I really just want to do my own thing and I could really care less about other people/talking to other people. I mean. Here I am, it’s spring break- all of my friends have left the city, and I’m still here; I think I would like to be hanging out with other people, maybe pursuing some women, but I’d also like to relax and maybe hope that some woman will come knock on my apartment door (after figuring out how to unlock the downstairs front door) and we’ll just hit it off from there, etc etc. I don’t really have a friend group. It’s weird. I have a bajillion acquaintances, but there’s really no one I’d like to call up and hang out with.
I really don’t dig bars… I don’t even want to talk about clubs. I’m really not attractive enough (in that fairly-superficial bar sort of way) to meet women there. I usually meet my women at libraries, on the bus/train, and house-parties. Somehow, I can almost seamlessly make people feel warm/like we’ve known each other for forever, but that’s my problem; for women, I need to be able to push them over the edge JUST A LITTLE BIT more- make them a little more Into me instead of old friends.
As for pheromones, Yikes. I have no idea. I’m not even sure how I’m here typing this message! I’d surely be willing to try them. It’s that or patchoulli, I suppose.
You can probably tell I don’t know myself very well/what I want! (I knew, and sometimes I know, but it just changes so often!)
errrrr yeah. I’m really digging this forum. Interesting. I’ll be doing some more exploring, but shoot some replies this way!