My name is Raymond, I’m 34 years old, living in The Netherlands and I am new to this forum. I have been checking out articles and information for a few weeks now, including this site, but finally I’m prepared to take the leap and try it out.
The main reason I’ve been searching for information is because of my girlfriend (of 23 years old). I’ve been really happy with her for the past 2 years, and we are expecting a baby in September. For some reason though, she is really shy and lacking confidence, while I tell her she’s beautiful and special every day. She has a lot of problems feeling safe, especially when we’re in a group of people. So I’m searching for ways to get her to feel comfortable and trusting towards other people. I also think she’s hot but because of her lacking self confidence she’s afraid to be sexy (I think). I read some info on Instant Sexyness which might do the trick for her. Of course, now that she’s pregnant I do want to ask if it’s wise to try it out now.
I am a very outgoing and social person myself, so if there are pheromones I would try out it’s the ones that make other people around me more talkative. I live in a big city and people often get nervous when I suddenly start a conversation.
Then there’s also the problem of me being ‘addicted’ to weed. Living in Amsterdam it’s kind of hard to avoid and it just makes my head feel less cloudy. I also need it to fall asleep now. Are there any pheromones that can mimic this in some way? I really want to quit, but it’s hard after having used it for over 20 years. With my first child on its way I really intent to!
I hope someone can guide me in my search for the right pheromones to try out.
With my Gift Certificate I plan to give my girlfriend some pheromones to try out. If any of you have recommendations, that would be nice. After that I think I’ll buy some small bottles for myself.
Hey Raymond, welcome! I’m pretty new to the mones world too, but I can tell you what I’ve experience so far has really been great. I got my first shipment of mones on Friday and wore my A314 and Instant Shine to work today. In what is usually a stressful environment, I’ve been in a great mood all morning and have been able to get my work done without being frustrated. Maybe it’s my mentality with the mones on, but I like to believe the mones are working in a way that’s helping me keep a good attitude with all the work I have.
Like I said, I’m still relatively new so my advice may not be as good as others. But I would reccommend the Instant Shine for your situation with your wife. It really seemed to brighten my mood even with the high level of stress that comes with working in New York. I hope you get some good advice and wish you well with your situation!
Hey jdweez, thank you for the quick reply! So Instant Shine, will look into that. Is it a good way to deal with confidence issues though? She’s mostly in a good mood anyway, especially when she’s with loved ones. Will try it out for myself anyway, thanks!
Hey Ray, welcome to Pherotalk. You’ve definitely come across the best pheromone community online and AD offers the best products out there, all backed with their guarantee. Be sure to do as much reading on here as possible, the amount of information here is second to none. And wait for your $25 GC to be issued before making your first purchase.
For your girlfriend, I wouldn’t really know what to suggest. But for social anxiety type issues, I was just reading that MX297 could be a great option. P75 is also pretty awesome at giving you an “I don’t give a f***” attitude. Socials such as IS, IO and IH would be a great option for you. Something that may also help to spice things up between the two of you may be TUTH. Keep reading here and get to learn everything you can about mones. Look through the womens forum on some more advice on things to help out your GF. The members here are awesome and are always willing to help out the newbies. Good luck and welcome again…
Name’s John, and no problem. Yeah the Instant Shine has me in a good/confident mood, so it may be worth a shot. My friend just bought the P75 and said he was really calm and relaxed after using it as well, just like the post above stated. TUTH would be a good way for you two to mix it up as well, may help with the whole sexiness issue too! I’m still in experimental phase though, so I will try to get back to you as I work my way through these, good luck!
Congratulations!Your first baby, it is a special time for both of you and it can be a bit frustrating as well so just try to prepare for the worst but expect the best.
It is not advised that you use pheromones around the developing feutus or babies.There is a link where some women were asking about this and I will try to find it to include in this thread.
Eventually when the baby is born and you want to purchase some mones for your girl you can come back and we will recommend some products.
You can purchase the instant sexiness now because when we go out of stock there is no telling when it comes back.
I included another thread to tell you the difference between is/a and is/b
Shine is a great product to make you feel calm and just bring out that youthful glow that everyone loves to be around.
For easing your way into conversation and to make ppl feel chatty around you I suggest IO
P74 has been known to be a real good tension reliever but I suggest you get yourself use to the instant lines to build a good foundation.
Thank you! I am glad I’m checking this topic one more time, because I almost forgot about the effect on the pregnancy. Would it be wise for me to wear pheromones though? Like the Instant Shine product? I’m not around my girlfriend 24/7, mostly evenings, so I would maybe like to spray some on me before going to work just to try it out.
As for waiting until the baby gets born, I’m very excited for that to happen already! And thank you for the GC