I’m really excited to be on this forum. I’m a 20 year old female from NJ and currently a junior at Penn State University. My interest in pheromones has grown immensely after reading all of the helpful threads & posts on this forum. I’m a psychology major, so all of this interests me very much. But, the main reason I came to pheromonetalk was to get some advice & improve my success with guys! I’m a pretty laid-back girl who isn’t the most confident when it comes to guys. I haven’t really had a lot of luck with guys in the past (some crazy ex’s!). About a month ago, I started talking with this guy I met off the internet. We texted each other everyday from the minute we woke up to the second we fell asleep and spoke on the phone a few times. About two days ago, everything changed. He stopped texting & calling. I texted once, and he said he was busy with writing papers so I let him be. I don’t plan on texting him anymore unless he texts me because I personally believe he has lost interest, and there is nothing I can do about that! I’m not a girl who clings to a guy and bombards him with questions, so I’ll just have to see what happens with that. How does this relate to my interest in pheromones? Well, my friend received this random pheromone sample from another friend as birthday present about 2 years ago. I didn’t really believe in the stuff even though it smelled really good! After having no luck with my most recent guy, I turned to pheromone research. I really think my low confidence level affects my love life. Most guys seem to like me a lot more after getting to know me, but most guys don’t even try to initiate conversation, so I can’t seem to get anywhere! I feel like I am a girl who knows how to treat men, but I never can get my foot in and actually grab the attention of a man. So, after hours of research about pheromones and the effects on both myself and others, I have finally decided to purchase some! I really enjoy reading the personal accounts of pheromone use because they illustrate their effectiveness the most, and I really hope I get some of the same effects and break out of my shell! Sorry for all the ranting, but I really needed to get this out! I plan to purchase some pheromones and post my effects (hopefully positive ones!). I know pheromones won’t change my personality or anything but I think i just need a boost! Any recommendations on which ones are best? I’ve read some reviews for IS A & B and MX135 but I’m not really sure on all the specifics. Thanks everyone!
Hi there pheonmenal! Welcome to phertalk
I think you may have covered enough about yourself to qualify for the $25 gift certificate, but it would be nice to know a bit more so we can reccomend products that are more suitable for you personally. In what setting are you planning on using these products for the most parts (e.g: on campus, clubbing, bars etc)?
From what you’ve already said about yourself, I reccomend you try some Instant shine + Instant Honesty + Instant openess. IShine has great self effects, as it makes you feel really good about yourself, and when you are feeling good, the people around you will also feel good. It makes you seem upbeat and optimistic. Instant Openess makes it easier for people to aproach you and initiate conversation as you’d seem like a open person. Instant Honesty makes the conversations a lot deeper as it gives you a trust worthy air around you.
Hope you enjoy yourself here at phertalk. I look forward to reading your adventures
Instant Sexiness B would probably fit the best for you, to be more congruent with your personality. But I will let the experts (The ladies) let you in on what they think would be the best. I have no experience with these except having them as a part of a free gift when I ordered. If you’re a guy you probably won’t know and can only speak based on reading. If there are no responses from the women, ask sillykitty, tisha, or mickaelia on their thoughts.
However for the other unisex products that AD offers, I’ve used them all.
What I can tell from what I’ve read is maybe guys are reluctant to come up and talk to you. Why is that? Do you look intimidating, do you look standoffish? Looks also matter to guys, especially in college, are the guys you want to attract attracted to you? There are so many factors in it that its hard to pinpoint exactly what it is. For men, we see a cute girl we like, we try to approach. If we’re too scared we don’t. Or we see a girl, not physically attracted, and we don’t.
However some pheromones here can help mitigate some of those obstacles. Like previously mentioned above, Instant Sexiness will help.
However, socials like Instant Openness or CTTM would help you out in initiating conversations. There are some MX’s that have been proven to work with women, and since I haven’t tried any of it, I’m going to keep my mouth shut. The main thing I can also tell you that would possibly help in face to face interactions would be Instant Shine.
This forum is only part of the wider community out there, start a Journal, read posts from other women, stay here and be active and I can guarantee you that help will come and you’ll be able to see significan results. Interpersonal developments coupled with pheromone usage can have such a great impact on your interactions and I highly recommend it.
Thanks for your answers! I go to apartment/house parties most often on the weekends, so I would probably use them there, but I’m a little weary of that because most guys at parties are very intoxicated so I don’t know if I’d want to attract them haha I’d be open to using pheromones around campus and just running errands. A new semester is approaching with new classmates and courses, so it would be interesting to see if there was any effect there.
With regards to attracting guys, I know guys who think I am attractive but I’m usually only attracted to them as friends or they are guys who don’t want a relationship. A relationship is something I am looking for, and most guys I run into at college are either interested in being “friends with benefits” and aren’t committed enough for a real relationship. Personally, I don’t think I look intimidating, but I feel very self-conscious at parties. I don’t think I have standards that are too too high. I would rather date a guy who “rates” a 7 with a great personality than a guy who’s a 10.
Whenever I’m at parties, I usually just talk with my friends, dance, and just hang out. I don’t really do anything out of the ordinary to draw attention to myself, but guys just don’t seem to notice me. I certainly don’t think I look like an ogre, but I do not consider myself to be extremely gorgeous either. I’ve never really made the first move and approached a guy because I just don’t think they would respond well and blow me off or something else negative.
CTTM and IO should definitely be on your list then. Sometimes guys are intimidated and they don’t approach women, remember that you’re still ina younger age group where most guys won’t make the approach. These products should help and I reiterate to keep active here and work out kinks that you may be having.
Girl, I was reading your introduction and I was thinking the story of my life.
It has a number of factors that can be contributed to what’s going on with you and guys. It is always great to have confidence and that assists in you not picking losers or internet wannabes and two when the relationship ends you don’t get the shorter end of the stick cuz lack of confidence usually allows us women to make the men walk all over us.
I will use these pheromones and this forum to find out more about you and what you want and just what you stand for. If you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything.
You wanna treat these guys nicely but sadly most men don’t believe that and I even heard my married older brother admit he loves his wife cuz she kicks him every once in a while. Sick but true.
We leave in a society when the word love is used but most don’t even know what the means and so you need to be careful who you want to take care of. I recently found someone worthy of my time but it’s such a struggle seeing that I was use to so many idiots.
The products mentioned will be good for you. MX135 is no longer available but some great new mixes are coming out for the women so stay tuned.
