My name is Kunal. I’m 24 years old and from New York, NY. I have an issue with gals. I am an extremely shy guy who has a hard time approaching girl. I also get nervous when talking to them. I am an attractive guy and gals do approach me but I’m more like Kutrapali in THE BIG BANG THEORY! Women sometimes do stare at me and notice me, but I can do anything other than have some eye contact and smile. I came across pheromones while googling “How to boost your confidence?”..lol
I have already been upfront about my issues here ,and I need something that would work for me perfectly..I was looking into something that would give me a confidence boost and also attract women at the same time. I have no idea if these work instantly or over a period of time and would love to have a response from someone who’s been in this sort of situation before.
My name is Kunal. I’m 24 years old and from New York, NY. I have an issue with gals. I am an extremely shy guy who has a hard time approaching girl. I also get nervous when talking to them. I am an attractive guy and gals do approach me but I’m more like Kutrapali in THE BIG BANG THEORY! Women sometimes do stare at me and notice me, but I can do anything other than have some eye contact and smile . I came across pheromones while googling “How to boost your confidence?”..lol
I have already been upfront about my issues here ,and I need something that would work for me perfectly..I was looking into something that would give me a confidence boost and also attract women at the same time. I have no idea if these work instantly or over a period of time and would love to have a response from someone who’s been in this sort of situation before.
Being attractive is a major plus! But as you already know looks can only get you so far. There aint a pheromone product out there that’s gonna change you into being more outgoing. But I do believe that they can help calm your nerves and “feel” a little more self assured. It’s still going to take a lot of guts to approach someone you like. You Just have to be willing to put yourself in a position where you might be rejected and be okay with it if you are and not take it personaly. The worst they will do is say no or react unenthusiastically. Some mones that I like for feeling more confident is Instant Jerk or 4 drops A314+10 mcg none.
Well pheromones are not magic.They work by changing the way you appear and how people percieve that new appearence.There are some self effects too ( one of this is higher confidance with some products) but only the pheromones will not do everything for you.They can do alot though.
A314 is very good product for seeming more high rank male to others but sometimes this can be distancing and u say that socialisation is your problem - so better not to use this at first or not to use it without some social products as a combination.
I think that IG will give you high confidence without you appear distancing to others.This one will make you seem manlier, younger and with certain glow.Women love it. For me 3 sprays is the best dose - more is bad.
For talking more to people and girls you should consider CTTM2.This is wonderful product and I just love it.When u use it it’s literary “talk is in the air”.See my review of it in the link im my signature.
Instant shine is also good phero product.It makes you and the others around you be in good mood and this is verry good when socialising or picking up girls.
You should consider ammo ( or tuth, but ammo is better for overall attraction) too.It’s good sexual product.Be aware that it contains androstenone witch is verry powerfull sexual pheromone and when using too much u will overdose and girls will be avoiding you.Young male’s body produces alot of androstenone so u should use androstenone products (ammo/tuth) wisely at low dosages so if u decide to get ammo or tuth be careful.
I know exactly what you mean when you talk about the Big Bang Theory. Unfortunately, while pheros may help a little bit, there isn’t much they can do (speaking from experience here). As we say “It’s ten percent pheros, ninety percent you” so if the ninety percent is still very shy… you need to get over your shyness and not expect too much from pheros.
Firstly, feeling tension around women is normal. Every man does (i’m very shy myself). I think the guys who have confidence just don’t let it overwhelm them. You need to expand your comfort zone by just talking to more people without wanting to “get” anything from them, without necessarily having any outcome except connecting and having fun. A good way to start is just to make eye contact and say “Hi how are you” to people who serve you in stores and so on. Then say “Hi” to a woman as you pass without going any further, etc etc.
Not everyone gets self-effects from pheros and pheros are really designed to affect others, not you. Some that may help are Instant Shine (puts me in a great mood), Openness (gives me an itch to talk but I feel under pressure then, not a strong recommendation), and A314. A314 is subtle and hte self-effects seem to build up over time for me, making me more confident and “solid”.
If you try pheros or not, definitely get out there and take some kind of action to interact with more people, it will get easier.
First step is to establish communication. If women sometimes stare at you what do you? Can you be playful sometimes. Give yourself a break, also remember negative thinking never leads to positive results. Flirt spontaneous with true sincerity. Live in the moment! Live in the moment!
Conservations you have in your head tend to stay there. If you see someone you are interested in, act!!!
Action Jacksonadvise: “I do believe that they can help calm your nerves and “feel” a little more self assured.” and “You Just have to be willing to put yourself in a position where you might be rejected and be okay with it if you are and not take it personally.” That’s a Golden Rule
Casanova said: “They work by changing the way you appear and how people perceive that new appearance. There are some self effects too ( one of this is higher confidence with some products) but only the pheromones will not do everything for you.”
Tezza23 stated: “Firstly, feeling tension around women is normal. Every man does (I’m very shy myself). I think the guys who have confidence just don’t let it overwhelm them. You need to expand your comfort zone by just talking to more people without wanting to “get” anything from them, without necessarily having any outcome except connecting and having fun.”
I basically agree with the choice(s) mentioned; get yourself either A314 or Instant Gentlemen and master the effects of those items.
Greetings Kunal from a Phero-rookie myself! I’m only about 30 years OLDER than you but I remember clearly the odd occasional fits of bashfulness I too experienced in my twenties. I’ve always had good success with the ladies because they tend to approach me (even now) but when I was feeling shy I had a tough time responding adequately to these women & I came across as a conceited jerk to them & the brave ones would tell me so! That hurt but they actually did me a huge favor cos I didn’t want to treat someone that way much less be perceived that way due to my occasional shyness. I didn’t want to be misunderstood in a way that would hurt a well-intentioned woman’s feelings so I made a clear choice to “get over myself” and be consistent in how I related to the opposite sex. Boy am I glad I made that decision because with daily “in the moment” practice it just became a great new habit that resulted in many memorable encounters & friendships.
The ladies are just as frightened of rejection & as excited to be greeted with a smile & a kind word as us guys are…maybe more so, we men just tend to over emphasize our self-perceived inadequacies in different ways than they do.
It’s painful for both sexes, dealing with these insecurities.
It’s a good thing to simply smile at people (women are people too!) and dig on their reactions. It makes most people’s day, but especially your own as the bringer of light. Good Luck my friend, it will work out for you!
. I came across pheromones while googling “How to boost your confidence?”..lol
