hello everyone my name is sam from middletown ny. i just want to say that i need all the help i can get. i am a 47 year old black man kind of heavy who needs help to rekindle the love and affection from my woman of more than 20 plus years.
i know she loves me but the sparks between us have dwindled away.
PLEASE RECOMMEND THE RIGHT PRODUCT FOR ME.
YOUR FOUND FRIEND SAM.
Everytime I give advice I say “go with IG!” I know it’s not in trial size & that it’s not that popular, but it’s the most consistent & true product.
Are you still with her & you just need to reignite the romance? From a non-pheromone stand point you could do something wildly different. Something unexpected.
From a pheromone stand point you can “turn up the heat”! I’ve sorta been with someone & everytime we seem to slip into a bad spot I put on a lot & she becomes very very intrigued with me. Not just sexually. But be careful of this. Too much can also ignite any bad blood, if there is any.
Hi Sam, welcome to the forum.
Mind if I ask why you think things between the two of you have dwindled? What is your personality like? How about your woman? Your information will help us to steer you in the right direction.
I look forward to your reply. Thanks!
Hello and welcome Sam
Like robbie has said we need to know more so we can help giving you progucts to look at.
20 years is a long time these days. You will get some good advise on the products and help with you woman on here.
I will check back later and see whats up.
Hello Sam, Welcome to Pherotalk 
A lot of people look into using mones for the very same reason as you. Its hard to give a really good referral unless we know a little bit more about your situation. You dont have to revel anything to personal. What is you personality like ? I am assuming its your sex life that needs a boost correct ? Is there any other issues with your relationship that need a boost, like is she moody or you dont talk or connect as much as before ?
How did you think to use mones and fine the forum ?
All this helps to give you suggestions that will fit your needs. By the way no offense to sirius and his suggestion but I dont feel IG will do it. Once we know more I will be more sure.
Looking forward to your reply so I can send you a GC and get you started
Tisha
Tisha you must be a fly on the wall ,all the above would apply especially the fact that we don,t talk like we use to. when we do make love it is good , but it,s not as intense as years gone by.
sometimes i ask myself ,what am i doing wrong. I think she wants the man she first met years ago, and i want to stop being moody, loose weight, and attract the woman that i dealy love.
I was surfing the web, and came across this site. i am really intriged by some of the thread,s i have read so far
TUTH should help you in the bedroom, because of your age, you can get the 2x strength. Instant Shine will help with your confidence, because it sure sounds like you could use a boost there. Instant Honesty will spark deeper conversations with your honey.
Test each product separately to learn how many sprays of each works best for you.
As for Tisha being a fly on the wall, she’s probably done that in the past 
, but she’s also very intuitive about people…
Nah, I am just very good at what I do, I have the unique ability to read between the lines and connect with people.
As Rob mentioned, TUTH would be good for the bedroom, but I am feeling starting with AMMO may work better for you. TUTH is just arousal which when all the other factors are there comes naturally. We want to rekindle those other factors first then you may want to try some TUTH to make sex more intense.
AMMO is sexy attractive, interesting mildly arousing, makes a girl take a second look and see all those quality’s that we miss on first glance or take for granted after a while.
IH for deeper more meaningful communication and a feeling of connection and closeness. Women need this to become aroused and when in a relationship for a while sometimes things get stale and need a little boost. I find this one gives a feeling of newness, like when I first met my husband, but I am the only one who has reported that.
IFM for comfort and affection. A1 which is what is in this has been dubbed the “love mone” Its calms and eases and gives a feeling of well being.
Now back to TUTH, If you do get it, go slow. Dont use it with AMMO thats to much overkill. Use one spray and work up till you see a reaction 1 to 3 should be all you need but dont jump right to 3. I would use the other products first to start rekindling those feelings though.
You dont have to get them all, I am just giving you the best choices for your situation. However They come in small to-go bottles so you can check things out before buying big ones and see what you like best.
Now mones evoke emotion its how they work, Ishine may help better your own moodiness because it often effects the users as well as the people exposed. This is not what its designed for though but its something to keep in mind.
When mones do effect the users they tend to feel better about themselves and this can trigger weight lose. There are some reports in the forum by Madison Tate and a few of the ladies who noticed it being easier to lose weight after using mones. Again everyone is different and this is not what mones are meant for but they do effect emotion and alot of people stress eat or eat when upset so this may be why they see this.
I am not trying to make wild claims but this is a research forum to and its something to look at. If you notice it we would appreciate hearing about it in the forum because its important to the research of mones. We look forward to your participation
Your GC is on its way 
Have a Happy New Year
Tisha
Hello Sam and welcome to the forum.
I am about your age and married for 20+ years also - and with kids still in the house.
Tisha is right - a lot of people - male and female - come here looking for many of the same things. Tisha is good at what she does - besides delivering the mail lol - and she has given you great product advice as she always does.
To also help you I would ask you to read the thread in my signature block for married guys. It goes into products and strategies that guys can use to do just what the title mentions - improve life at home. Like Tisha says - and as you know I am sure - the passion is tied to a lot of other factors besides “I am in the mood tonight”. As you work on the relationship and communications, there are products here that can help and in turn make all these other factors fall into place so the desire - and fire - pops back into the relationship. The thread I just mentioned can certainly help with that.
Hope you find it helpful.
Hey Tisha
i took your advice which really made me feel more alive and more at peace with myself,and i have purchased some to-go products to try out and see what happens. Once again thanks for your great advice
Talk to you soon.
HAPPY NEW YEAR…Sam