My name is Kathy and I’m 21 years old female from Chicago. I’m here to try to soften up my athletic build and one of the guys status with pheromones.
Hi Kathy and welcome to the forum. I will not try to give you a lot of product advice as I am a guy - I will let one of the female pheromasters like Tisha do that. But I did want to say welcome.
You will find a lot of great products here that REALL DO WORK. A lot of people are naturally skeptical but this is real science with real effects. The only catch is it varies a little from person to person depending on your body chemistry and personality, so you will have to experiment/play with the products at first to see the optimal dosage for you.
But anyways - welcome, I am sure one of the ladies will be along soon. In the meantime you can check out introductions form a couple of the other ladies to look at possible suggestions or read the Stickies in the Women’s Section. You will find a lot of good info there.
Good luck and have fun.
Welcome Kathy!
Can you develop a little bit about other thing in your life like your personality and ur previous success/failure or experience, nothing long, just a few sentences.
As for a soft vibe, instant sexiness B is the right product. Instant shine with also make u more approacheble, along with instant openness.
Welcome Kathy.
Do a forum search on isex. I think you may find it interesting.
Welcome to the forum Kat! If you want to soften up your athletic build eat pizza 5 nights per week and don’t leave the couch.
On a serious note, Instant Sexiness should help. Instant Shine will make you more approachable because it will give you a friendly and fun loving aura.
You might also want to consider CTTM. It will help make you the center of attraction or the life of the party.
Read the stickies in the womens forum for some great useful information. As suggested by Gone, use the search function to find specific topics of interest. It is a good tool to speed up your research.
Many of the women here on the forum have a lot of experience with using pheromones. They are just not always as quick on the draw as us men. They will be along shortly to share their knowledge and give you some quality first hand advice. DrZorters
Hi Kat! Welcome to the forum!
Already a few good suggestions have been given by previous posters. I expect more specific advise from the experienced female members and phero goddesses like tisha, kitten, laurie, Jasmin, bella, countesszero… and the list is long. 
Wow! So many boys! I guess you do attract boys.. Hey Kat!
Liz here. The guys are right, Instant Sexiness would do wonders. Instant Sexiness B is loaded with TAH so that would give you a softer feminine edge if that’s what you’re looking for.
Don’t discount Instant Sexiness A totally. You might be surprised by the effect it might give you, who knows, along with your athleticism, the TAL content of IS/A might just give you an aura of a strong goddess.
Who knows? Your GC will be given by Steve, so if you’re thinking of getting IS/B, it comes only with a huge bottle. The way to order the B version is for you to order the normal Instant Sexiness, but make a comment during check-out for the order to be B.
You can use the GC to buy a to-go bottle of IS/A, just to see the effect it may have on you.
However, Kathy, to be eligible for the Gift Certificate, I must ask you to provide just a little bit more detail about yourself. The specifics you’re looking, any other areas you want to improve on, your personality, basically anything under the sun, really, , we just want to get to know you!
Liz
P/S.. Don’t worry, you’re not in a forum so overcrowded with yet again boys.. Pretty soon all the girls will be welcoming you and you’ll be one of us girls! Check out the women’s forum, and do join in, girl!
Maybe I should do the pizza diet to soften up, sounds easy enough lol. Anyways, I had ordered the to go sprays (Instant sexynessdon’t know if it’s A or B , shine, openess). They came in the mail today. I had not tried them so far…well besides I haven’t the slightest clue. As for more info on me, I’m in college studying chemistry 
pretty much a tomboyish nerd. lol But, yeah I really get annoyed when the guy I’m on a date with stares sometimes triple takes at dizzy girls that talks like Oh my god, you know like totally… Not that I want to be like that, maybe I should lie about what I’m studying…but I want a softer auora.
Hi Kathy and welcome to the forum!
I have to agree with Lizzie about the Instant Sexiness.
It’s one of my favorites!
You might try the Instant Sexiness/A and use a few sprays of TAH
to soften it up. I’ve found that combination works really well for me.
The is/b is described as Marilyn Monroe in a bottle, where the is/a is more like Angelina Jolie in a bottle.
Don’t hesitate to ask questions, everybody here is so nice and willing to help.
Once again, welcome 
Hmmm, I swear that I posted my reply…
Anywho, hello guys and gals.
The pizza diet does sound appealling and easy but I don’t think I’m going to head that route. I had ordered the to go sprays of Instant sexiness (don’t know if it’s A or B), shine, openness. They came today…but one of the bottles was half empty and the bubble wrap was soaked… I haven’t really tried them out yet (although the sandwich delivery driver was giving me strange looks). As for more info about me, well I’m 21 in college studying chemistry and biology…I like to workout, weightlift mostly, sometimes box. My one of the guys status started in high school, because I was dared to try out for the guys wrestling team lol did that for 2 years. Not to paint an amazon picture of myself, I’m athletic but still have womanly curves not going to give out my measurements though. I get annoyed when the guy I’m on a date with stares/neck crank at dizzy valley girls who use the words like and totally too much… not to mention that’s rude and respectful on his part. So I’m looking for a softer more approachable image.
Hey Kathy, looks like a lot of us woman were out on the town tonight, and weren’t here to greet. Sooo Sorry, but in our defence these products are to great to keep us cooped up in doors
Looks like you have gotten some great advice, once you give us some more specifics we may be able to narrow it down a lil more. What specific reactions do you want from these boys. Are you looking for a relationship or do you want to have a lil “fun” with them? Less talk, more action? Or do you just want there responses to be softer towards you?
Take a look at the womens foruma nd especially the stickies there. These will help guide you and answer some of the questions that all of us new users had. Take care Girl, can’t wait to hear more!
Hey, Kat.. Don’t worry, it’s just that the post of yours are being moderated.. After 50 posts it won’t be anymore, and you can post all you want! (well almost )
If you have bought Instant Sexiness without specifying you want it to be version B, it’s definitely Instant Sexiness A (ooooooh, ooooooh, you’re blinding me with your auura, madam )..
Try and see how it works for you, if you still want the gentle “marilyn monroe” aura, you can buy some TAH to go with it.
Girl, don’t hide your brilliance! Flaunt it, you’ll get better guys that way too.
Edit : btw, bubblyblonde’s idea is great, i didn’t think about wearing TAH and TAL together.
Perhaps you just haven’t found the right guy.
Some of us appreciate tomboy nerds with womanly curves who not only know their chemistry but can also go a few rounds in the ring.
Sounds like a gem to me.
Besides, your boyfriend gets a lot of bragging rights!
“My girlfriend can beat up your girlfriend.”
Hello Kat and welcome to the forum
Well I am sorry that that pesky little bottle came half empty and apologize for it. I will send you a $25 gift certificate instead of the regular $15.
At first I thought it might be the actual bottles that were defective so I tested them. I actually dragged it behind my Jeep for a mile and couldn’t get it to leak. It turns out it was HUMAN element and that has been fixed.
I would have suggested the Isexi B if you want to soften. It’s like Natalie Portman in a bottle.
But you got Angelina Jolie in a bottle and that is pretty irresistible.
I will be sending out your GC in a little while to your email.
Welcome.
Thanks for the suggestions guys and gals! I will start testing out the bottles to see what works and keep you posted!