Hello, I’m a guy (32) living in Belgium for one year. I’m here finishing my PhD but I don’t take any courses (at least for the moment), and work all day in an office alone with my promotor and another guy. I live in a university residence but everybody is in their own bussiness and I only talk to few of them at cooking time (although my cooking normally takes 4 minuntes in the microwave oven).
I don’t party too much but basically because I’m not confident with myself in approaching to a woman. As you can imagine, my shyness level is a little bit high but I’m looking for ways to correct this situation. Few weeks ago started to do some indoor climbing and training in a fitness center. I would like to feel comfortable with myself when saying my first words to a woman and establish an interesting conversation. Spring is on its way and the Sun is reaching Belgium (thank God) and I would like to start going out to party of to bars and attract the attention of the girls around, and obviously I would like to receive more than attention from women = sex oppotunities.
I’ve been browsing the forum for the last two days and I think pheromones is the answer I’ve been looking for since I’m here. As a newbie, I’m asking you for the starter kit suitable to my needs. I was also wondering if the use of any of your pheromone products in a situation like the training in the gym will be noticeable by girls? Is not that I’m thinking to use regularly the pheromones at the gym but to test the products at an initial phase to see any reaction (as long as it is one the places where I’m in a social ambient). My own sweat will annulate the effect of the pheromones?
The pheros will not help you overcome your shyness but they will give you some extrra tools to work with when you do decide to make some moves. Working out and rock-climbing ought to help some in the self-confidence area. Read a little more through here - esp. some of steve’s stuff - lots of info to help you take steps to start overcoming shyness.
There are several phero products here that can give you few extra tools:
Ammo has enough none in it to let the ladies know you are interested but it is balanced enough you could actuall wear it to work.
IO can go a long way to helping with those intial conversations. Again - you may well still need to overcome some of that shyness and start the conversation, but this product can fertainly help loosen some tongues. Be careful though - it can have that same effect on you!
Ishine can help make everyone around you feel happy to be near you. This often helps get some conversations going also.
I generally do not recommend pheros to the gym if you are going to be working out a lot - you will just sweat them off. That is you do get the effects at first … but you will sweat them off in a heavy workout. Or at least that has been my experience.
I think you’re going to find products of great value here.
You might consider trying the nol based products io and ih. These will both help stimulate conversations with people and in establishing rapport. They are not overtly sexual, but getting to know each other is often the first stage of the mating ritual.
Ammo is another you should try. This one has more of an overt sexual tinge. It might be a good one to wear out on a date.
The rone based products, a314 and ig are also worthy of your attention. a314 enhances status and can be beneficial in professional interactions. IG is similar but does not create as much personal space or deference as a314.
Yeah, grad school doesn’t do much for the social life does it? I would say some Ammo, Instant Shine, and Instant openness would fix you up pretty well to start with. The ammo and instant shine would help give you an attractive popular kind of vibe, and the instant openness will help you break the ice when meeting new people.
Also, if I can offer some been-there-done-that kind of advice: keep making the gym a high priority and go get yourself some fresh healthy food. There is really only so long you can sit in front of a computer writing a dissertation, eating crap out of a microwave or vending machine, not exercising, and not socializing. Ultimately your work productivity will suffer (along with everything else).
As far as wearing pheros at the gym, as soon as you start heating up from exercise, they will volatilize much faster, so you have to be careful with the dose.
Hello yiki76 welcome to the forums! The fellow forumners give good advice, take them! Regarding gym, though using pheromones in there are pretty wasted, i do find it useful to dab a bit of Instant Jerk across my upper lip. It gives me a bit of aggression to improve my routine. HNNNNGGGG!!! lol
Hello yik, you received some excellent advice here. It might also be worth your time using pheromones and combining this advantage with the knowledge that you would learn from the Mystery Method or RSD Blue Print.
Tish will give you a gift certifcate soon. Let us know what you buy, and do return and let us know your results
While mones will not do all the work for you they are great aids in making it easier and more productive when you do socialize by causing comfort confidence and attraction.
I think AMMO and IO are great for you to use for starters. I would also suggest Ishine which is a very confident mix that attracts others and can give you a feeling of confidence and well being.
Pheromones at the gym can be hit or miss. Once you start sweating a lot the diffusion will go up but if you also have a lot of the coryneform bacteria on your skin which most humans do they can get stinky quick. I suggest switching to a anti bacterial soap if you plan on using at the gym to cut down that bacteria.
If you have any questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
Well back again to my post because I have to tell you what happened to me today. But first of all let me tell you that last week I received my order including: Instant Shine, Instant Openess, Come talk to me, Ammo and additionally a togo bottle of Turn up the heat (just the one I was missing, thank you guys).
Since I received my products I’ve been trying them alone in different dosages but I haven’t had the opportunity to really test the products. Since yesterday I really started with the testing mainly to see the effects on the people at the office. Bad thing is all of them are sausages and no ladies around but well is the testing phase. And for moment I’ve experienced with the Instants and Come talk to me.
Well today I sprayed my neck twice (one in front one in the back) with CTTM and headed to my office. I was working alone in the office when this guy enters and start doing some cleaning all over the place. This is regularly done 2-3 times a week and I’ve never crossed a single word with this guy (well only “good morning” or things like that). When he came close to my desk and started the cleaning bussiness he suddenly asked me a question (in Dutch, don’t forget I’m in Belgium) and I told him to speak in English. And that was it, we spent something like 40 min talking about different topics and it seemed like the guy was comfortable enough with the conversation. Funny thing was that only after 20 min of talk I realized that I was wearing the pheromones and that this situation may be boosted by CTTM. In conclusion, for me this is my first clear hit with the product during this testing phase. What do you think??
PD. God, please next time send me a cleaning lady around late 20’s to continue the testing!!!
