My name is Jon, and I’m from Nashville. I’ve spent a long time studying social technique, both because it never came naturally to me and because I enjoy having an awareness of things people are mostly unconscious of. Pheromones were something I avoided, mostly because of the negative connotations that usually come with their mention.
That said, most of the communities (sales, pickup, etc.) I’ve spent time with have similar stereotypes but actually led to observable results after I’d given them a chance. I was glad to come across a good community for these products, and it sparked my interest enough to try it out.
My goal now is to add a little extra that allows me to push my comfort zone more quickly and have more social options. I’m mostly focused on purely social things…my career and dating life are very healthy, but I’d still like to have more luck in meeting friends and expanding my social circle. I’ve received my first order of several to go bottles and the A314 oil and already place another order for the large bottles of Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Ammunition, and Come Talk To Me.
Maybe it goes without saying, but I was pretty happy with the first order, if only for the self-effects. I didn’t notice much of an effect on others (aside, perhaps, from my girlfriend, who was a bit more affectionate), but it did improve my mental state significantly. One thing I’ve learned from my past study is that most social skill is very dependent on state, so any boost, even due to placebo effect, is worthwhile.
In any case, I look forward to meeting the community here and exploring these products some more…wish me luck!
i understand your feelings about pheros. i too, still avoid talking about pheros unless it’s with my close friends who wouldnt judge, if you know wat i mean..
anyways. i noticed that you already have quite an arsenal already! you made some great choices you say that you only noticed self effects? have you tried experimenting with different dosages? for example, i usually dont see a lot with instant shine and i need to wear a LOT (5 sprays) to start seeing people acting more positively. so that might be something you want to consider next time
you picked out all the great socials so i really dont have more to comment.. if you start reporting on the products that you’ve already purchased, later you can request to be in an advanced user stage. in which case you can try some advanced mixes.
when you get to that stage, i think you should give some putatives a try for social effects. p74, p104 and mx272 are the ones that ive tried and had a great social response.
Your choices are all solid, it’s great that you’re getting something from your first order, make sure to read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for tips on using what you’ve bought.
Mind if I ask what your personality is like? Are you shy or outgoing?
I’d like to suggest that you learn to use the commercial line before you move onto the putatives. They can be fun to test, but they are much harder to use and see reactions from and are not for beginners. Also, putatives do not come with the same money-back guarantee as the commercial products do.
I hear you when you mention the negative connotations attached to pheromones. As you have already read, there is way more to it than just sex.
I came along to try to get more ‘action’ from the wife, instead I succeeded far more in improving conversation and bringing underlying issues to the surface to be discussed sensibly. As a result, my marriage has improved significantly and, mainly through A314 and Instant Honesty, my work life has shot through the roof.
You seem like a sensible guy, I assume that you’ve read the threads on testing and finding your sweet spot. Take heed of them and save yourself time and money, most of us didn’t!
Don’t be afraid to ask questions, but please, first use the search button, most questions have already been answered (in some cases, repeatedly).
Have fun and don’t forget to report your results, good and bad.
Wow your jumping right in. That’s great. A314 will up status but not increase approachability. Its kinds leaves them in awe and you have to lead when using it socially. Your GF already knows you and is not intimidated so this is why she is responding. Layer some socials with it and this will help with the approach.
There are plenty of products to play with here in the consumer section and mix section so I would wait on the putative till you master those. Putatives are not as easy to pick up on.
One product I see you avoided is IH. It doesn’t make you tell the truth although some people blurt out things they normally wouldn’t not reveal because the comfort level is so high with it. I think you would like this one. It brings deeper conversation and a feeling of connection. If women don’t feel a connection to you no matter what sexual masculine mix you use they wont act on arousal or interest. Its just the way were built.
If you have any questions or need help just let me know.
Your GC is on its way for the next time your ready to order.
I would say I’m more of an introvert, but do go out of my way to be more social. I think I may get worse initial reactions than someone more extroverted because I have a bit more invested in the interaction.
Playing off a good first impression, I usually don’t have any problems building comfort in others or taking the interaction in whatever direction I’d like (hence the lack of IH).
Also I’ve had close friends say I seem unapproachable when I go out, so the A314 is mainly for work situations. I often find myself leading groups who don’t know me or my position that well, so I’d find it useful to add an extra impression of authority.
Seeing as you’re an introvert and A314 will make you less approachable, you may want to add a social product like Instant Honesty or Come Talk to Me when you use the A314. The extra social product will take some of that alpha edge off (a good thing).
You want to test each product solo to learn your sweet spot and then you can spray yourself with more than one product at a time (called layering) for greater effect. Read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for additional tips and tricks.
