a) late 30s
b) female
c) northeastern US
d) I used to be a fairly confident and outgoing person who got plenty of attention from men and pretty much could date whoever I wanted. Then, after a few traumatic rejections and being cheated on, I have become much less confident, not just about being older but also about my appearance having changed somewhat and even about my ability to have a romantic relationship.
I had a romantic letdown a few months ago, and pheromones just popped into my head out of desperation really. Although I don’t like to admit it, I care a lot about being attractive to (or popular with) men in general. I do also really want to be in a relationship. (Can I have both?
)
Also I met someone recently who I’d really like to attract for a relationship (not just a hookup), plus I’d like chemical help (other than drinking alcohol
) to feel more confident around him and be my(old)self. I found pherotalk via google.
Instant Sexiness and Instant Honesty seem pretty intriguing.
QUESTIONS
- I wonder (not quite worry) a little about any health effects of these chemicals. I know they’re just topical but do they absorb and get into your bloodstream, cells, brain, glands or anything scary like that?
Again I’m a n00b so I’m pretty overwhelmed with all the info on here - just barely starting to figure things out, and I haven’t done any research about the safety issue yet. But it’s something that just occurred to me.
- I see a lot on here about some of the experimental stuff, but none of the ones that interest me seem to be available on the website. MX135 in particular sounds pretty amazing (down to the scent!)
- as a n00b, should I just not even be looking at experimental stuff?
- do those things (esp mx135) ever get re-issued/restocked?
I look forward to learning more! Thank you for this community which seems not just highly informative but also quite welcoming. ![]()