Hi there! I’m an 18 year old female college student from Chicago, IL! I’m a rather shy person, and though I have a few friends, no boyfriends yet though many people tell me I’m pretty. I don’t really have a best friend who’s always “there for me” or anything like that, so I’d like to see if these pheromones work for attraction and getting a more social life. When around a group of new people, I am usually “outside” the circle of people and have trouble getting noticed. I guess I’m sort of a computer geek and am the top in all my classes; people only come for help with homework, but nothing else. Any recommendations for me? I was thinking of using “Instant Sexiness B” for women to-go, or “Instant Shine” for women (to-go).
If you are shy then I’d suggest maybe go for IS/a rather than IS/b. IS/a will give you more of a lift both with the sexy vibe and with the confidence boost that comes with it. IS/b is also a good phero but it’s more girly & feminine and if you’re a bit shy then you don’t really need to emphasise feminine softness
Instant Shine is another great one. It’s a fab all rounder that boosts your mood and confidence, whilst giving you a happy & sociable vibe. It basically makes you shine
If you want a phero that’s a flirty social, not overtly sexy, but not a straight social, then I’d suggest Mx135. It’s basicallly a popularity potion that makes people want to be around you
Instant Openness is also great for improving communication. It increases the amount of conversation in yourself and those around you, as well as making everyone more relaxed. It’s fab as an ice breaker
Hey hamster, I’m a bit of a geeky type myself. While the pheros will help, they only grease the wheels. You have to make the wheel turn or you won’t go anywhere. If men don’t see you as girlfriend material it’s possible you’re not projecting enough of a sexual vibe. Look at your body language, particularly your eye contact; playing eye games is one of the ways a woman tells a guy she think’s he’s cute. Speaking as a guy, I find effective eye contact is one of the best ways for a woman to flirt with me. Very good book on this subject for women is The Fine Art of Flirting.
One way to avoid the edge of the group is to start to be the leader and initiator of social occasions: if you are the one organising everybody to go to the concert or whatever, you are by definition the centre of the group. On college campuses there should always be stuff going on, pay attention to announcements on bulletin boards etc and be the one who knows what’s happening.
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