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Hello all,

My name is Steve, and I am 20 years old. I live in Pennsylvania. Unfortunately, I have not had much luck with women; I’ve never even kissed a girl. That’s why I am here. I want a change, and I need all the help I can get.

I’ve always suffered from a poor self-image. I am intelligent, but I was never very good socially. I am rather shy. I can also be rather aloof at times. I assumed that it was not possible for a woman to like me. I didn’t get to go to the college that I wanted, so I went to my current school with a big chip on my shoulder. I didn’t want to talk to anyone, and I became extremely reclusive. A few people reached out to me, so I had some friends. I also got interest from one or two women, but I never acted on any of it.

This all changed during the second semester of my sopomore year when a cute volleyball player sat next to me in physics class. I asked her if she would be my partner, and she said yes. She and I did a few things together outside of class. I wanted her so much, but I got the infamous LJBF. This caused my self worth to crash completely, and it launched me into a mild depression for the rest of the semester.

I emerged from my depression after reading Double your Dating, which really helped me to improve my self image and explained why I had been rejected. This drove me to do some additional research on the subject, and on “social circle game” in particular. All of the books clearly said that, in social circle game, you should wait for IOIs from the girl before making a move.

That’s where pheromones come in. I want to use pheros to spark attraction in my female classmates. I stumbled upon pheromones during my research into attraction and dating, but I initially dismissed them as hokum. It seems that the scientific community is completely split on the issue of their effectiveness. However, I saw that your site offers a gift certificate, which will allow me to test pheros for myself. That’s why I decided to post here.

Androtics, if you can improve my, now nonexistent, sex life, then you can expect a lot of repeat business and great word of mouth from me. I thank everyone for reading this, and I look forward to becoming an active member of the pheromone community in the future.

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Hello and be welcome here Steve ..

Heads up .. this forum is going to change your life !

Sad to hear that you had such enormous problems with women …

but there i something going on .. you do have the guts to change it … and you´re inmidst this process

great to hear that you´ve started with some PUA material .. keep on track … more material out there …

if you like David de Angelo .. stick with him .. he offers everything you need …

he´s right about waiting for IOI´s and acting on them … women choose us by giving us IOI´s …

but we can trigger the IOI´s …read up on David de Angelos book Attraction is not a choice …

and that´s where the mones comes in play …

( however what the science community may think about mones ..they work ..and they work really good … but you´l discover soon i think )

keep in mind that mones are only a part of the puzzle … you have to continue to work on yourself … do you do sports .. some other hobbies …

you say that you´re not very good socially .. where do you see your sticking points ..what are your strengts …what are your weaknessess ?

well … you say you´re suffering from social anixety … and you have problems to make friends … because of some confidence problems … is this right .. ?

in what venues are you planning to use the mones … only at school … don´t you go out ?

o.k. …

let´s look into what to do .what can help you ..

there´s on thing to improve your self image ..and you self confidence … Instant Shine makes you more upbeat… makes more more happy and the ones around you as well …

and it creates an alluring glow around you … something mystical …

well ..

then there´s Instant Gentleman … it´s an charismatic product .. it will make you appear as more dominant … you´ll be respected more by others …and it gives you a smart leader vibe ..

younger women love this one …

and … there ´s Ammo … that´s the social .. sexual allrounder … girls will notice you more .. will value you more as boyfriend material … and it gives you as well a nice confidence boost ..

o.k.

Instant Openness would be a good thing to complement your arsenal … it´s the Icebreaker .. good to initiate conversations and to keep them flowing … it makes the words come way more easy out of your mouth ..

small talk made easy .. :wink:

alright ..that´s my suggestions for what to start with …

read up on the sticky threads … here and over at the main male Board ..

with the GC you´ve mentioned you can get some nice stuff to start with for a few bucks investment … what will get you started

i´m looking forward to hear more from you in the future ..

hey you promised to post …

have a cool time ..

and heads up

Pago

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Hi Steve - Welcome to Pherotalk. :slight_smile:

A lot of us can sympathise with your position and have been through low times and self-image problems at various times in our lives. Its good to see you have begun to work to improve matters and lift yourself out of them.

Pheros are only part of the story of course but along with other steps to improve your personality, they can be a great help. :slight_smile:

For starters, go and check out Ammo and the Socials, Instant Shine, IO, IH and IG.

These provide a good way to help provoke the feelings that conspire to create attraction in women and Ammo is a well balanced none-based phero that helps give you a sexy/social and healthy impression, whilst also giving you a little bit of a confidence boost. :slight_smile:

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Hi there Steve!

Don’t worry too much. It takes time for one to develop into something spectacular. Sometimes its a matter of day, months or even years. But the change is worth its wait. When you emerge as a very attractive man later on in your years, you develop a very sharp sense of social powers that can just melt the hearts of girls when you smile.

Pago and Mobo have given you very good advice, use them as your guide.

Change starts with yourself, if you want it badly enough, it will come.

And I don’t have doubt that you will succeed, simple reason as being able to see you in this forum.

Cheers Steve, all the best!

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Thanks to everyone who posted already.

Phago, you said that you wanted to know more about me, so I’ll try my best to answer your questions.

I know that pheros will not do everything for me. I have been working on self improvement for some time now. I’ve done a lot to improve my physical appearance: cut off my long mop of hair, worked out, tanned, and gotten contacts instead of glasses. My social anxiety is far less prominent than it once was. In the past, I never spoke to anyone unless he or she spoke to me first. I am now able to approach people and start a conversation relatively easily. I do, however, have trouble connecting with people. I run out of things to say very quickly. I have trouble moving beyond the small talk and making plans to hang out after class, especially with the “high-value” guys who already have lots of friends. My flirting skills need some work as well. I have trouble executing “cocky funny” converstion. Usually, I come off as mean spirited rather than playful.

You’re right; I do need to expand my repertoire of hobies. In the past, I was the geeky video gamer, and all of those guys have trouble with women. I lift weights now, but I don’t play sports. I might try an intramural league. I just don’t want to be the laughing stock of the team; I’ve never really excelled athletically.

I want pheromones to use in school and at parties/on campus social events. I’m thinking of starting with Ammo, Instant Shine, and Instant Openness or Honesty. What do you guys think of this mix?

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Ammo and IS or Ammo and IO are two of the best basic attraction mixes out there. Some people also swear by Ammo/IS/IO together.

Once you have got to know someone, switching from IO to IH in the mix helps deepen the conversation, promoting connection and helping bonding. :slight_smile:

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Great choice of mones. Would go for socials first, use Ammo sparingly for your current age :slight_smile:

Socials are like IS, IO and IH.

The past is the past, focus on the present and the future, when you blossom, you never wanna go back.

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Welcome to pherotalk Steve!

I am not gonna repeat what was already said because you did get some good pheromone recommendations for your situation and for your first purchase with us.

To be successful and have a better understanding on what you are about to venture into , do some research on your own.

Good luck!

Your gc was issued! :wink: