I found this site looking for a new shampoo! I used a pheromone shampoo years ago that smelled great and I figured - since I’m getting ready to try online dating I might as well boost my confidence and sex appeal.
My ex and I split a few yrs ago and now we’re really comfortable & close and it’s easy not to move on - BUT I want a life partner, not just a guy friend situation that’s going nowhere.
I’m very comfortable with meeting people in any context but when I imagine dating I feel insecure. I like really smart, energetic, self-starters, meaningful conversation, being 100% myself. Not interested in players, clubbing, anything superficial.
I’m 48 but look 33. The online possible matches look like my father, not partners! I want to find someone with vitality who’s done playing around. I’d like to meet someone and click for who we are together, not just sexual chemistry bec honestly, I don’t want to act on chemistry & get my head screwy. I want to make good decisions this time around.
I’d like to use pheromones for magnetism, to be easily approachable, and as a confidence & femininity booster.
Then…I’ll need to be in situations where I meet available men! I tend to work with women and I don’t go to clubs. Hmm. Any ideas?! I’m a homebody and somewhat social adventurer and I want a partner for both.
I’m amazed at how many guys are on the forum and into pheromones. Must be a sex drive thing!
Wow! Glad to have you here! That was a great introduction!
Very thorough but concise at the same time! Have you taken a look at the Female Subforum?
Do some searches for the journals regarding the use of Instant Sexiness. I think that this product is what you are looking for. I highly recommend you check out the journals as this will give you a complete sense on what the dose that used and how and in what situations they used the pheromone.
Wow! Glad to have you here! That was a great introduction!
Very thorough but concise at the same time! Have you taken a look at the Female Subforum?
Do some searches for the journals regarding the use of Instant Sexiness. I think that this product is what you are looking for. I highly recommend you check out the journals as this will give you a complete sense on what the dose that used and how and in what situations they used the pheromone.
Thanks - I’ve read lots & I’m still not sure how to choose between IS A & B. I behave like an extrovert but I’m truly an introvert. In my most comfortable zone I’m strong, confident, direct, even bossy (with my ex & family). Yet I’m often kittenish and quiet because I’m not that comfortable around bold bossy types or people I don’t know (and I am empathetic & kind). Sexually I’m more reserved & sensual, not a vixen or a performer, and I don’t want to pretend to be or invite something I’m not interested in acting on…but I do want to be most comfortable being myself (direct, outspoken…yet sensory/sensual).
I’d like to attract strong guys who are kind & sensitive but direct and driven, where I don’t have to make all the decisions and be in the driver’s seat all the time (the latter makes me angry). And I’d like to be confident and clear while much more in my feminine energy - receptive, treated well, gracious, loving; I want to be taken care of.
I am asking for opposites, it seems. Do I need both? Something else?! Does this sound answerable?!! Thanks so much for your feedback.
Some of us have used both successfully as some of us do posses both these personalities or can give out either vibe depending on our mood
In terms of the kind you attract , alpha males tend to be attracted more to the more reserved type but you have to be careful because some men seem to have it all together and give of that Alpha vibe and end up being too controlling or abusive.
Pheromones can assist you with attraction and yourself but you need to find a way to detect a certain type of man and how to read between the lines when they are talking
Let it be known also at the beginning of the relationship and clear what you want and what you won’t stand for, how you start the relationship is how its gonna continue so set clear boundaries.
The socials are also a great way to attract ppl and get conversation going.