Welcome Salzy: hi
Welcome to the forum Salzy,
You will find the folks here are nice and helpful.
Conjurator is right, you definitely need to get your confidence up. Pheromones affect yourself as well as others. I would go with his recommendations, but also ensure you are carrying yourself in a way that allows the pheromones to easily assist you.
A few links that may help you below:
Pheromones What they can and can’t do?its not MAGIC
This link has graphic photos, but I am including it because I wish for you to understand what you say to people when not saying a word…it adequately express (I feel) what pheromones assist to accomplish for you…silently giving confidence and encouraging you and others to dare to see you differently How you hold yourself matters (How you hold yourself matters)
I do agree with him that the men’s starter pack is best suited for you and wearing it to work, since you work in retail will boost your marketability as well as ensure people are drawn to you.
With purchasing a commercial line series of products like the the men’s starter pack, you have a money back guarantee, so you don’t have to worry about the product working.
Other people will be along to provide inputs.
I wish you the best on this new journey!