Hi Spiteface,
Welcome to the site. I agree with the above and will just add to what was mentioned already.
I would take a look at the Men’s Ultimate Kit as it will have everything you need to get started. This will have everything you need to get started and is discounted already. Really everything is about testing to see what works best and this way you can do that. I see you are in NY so with the $25GC used it would be $125 plus you would get free shipping on the kit which is another $10 savings so you can’t beat it.
The reason for the free shipping is if you spend over $100 of your own money you get this in the states.
I will still list the top 3 starting out that I think you will get the most use out of so you can decide what you really want.
Ammo This one is not as sexual as TUTH, but this is for attraction and good for day use and general use as well and I think this will cover everything else that TUTH doesn’t. For attraction and nice cologne. Very balanced with pheromones for attraction, status, and comfort.
TUTH This one is highly sexual and best for bedroom use. A little goes a long way. Very direct sexual.
ISThis one will boost your confidence and put her in a great mood. This one is like the icing on the cake. Also this brings out even more attraction in Ammo.
I normally try to limit to 3 so it does not get over whelming and this next one is not a sexual, but I think will help with any other problems there may in the marriage.
IH For bonding and deep conversations which is VERY important to women. Also this will help bring out her true feelings and any underlying problems that may need to be worked on, so very useful in a marriage.
As far as the scent Ammo is the only strong one as the others are pretty light. Just say you want to try something new and ask her what she thinks. What I do with my wife and daughter is make a game out of it when I am testing new things. I play like red light green light but what I do is have both of them turn there backs and then I apply my pheromones then after 30 minutes I walk very quietly up to them until they can smell the pheromone I am testing. I do this to test the distance of it LOL.
Well good luck and I am a married guy to so if you have any questions at all please ask.
If scent will be a problem then I would get TUTH, IS, and IO to start with as Ammo can be pretty strong to some.