So I’ve finally registered, too. 
I’ve been using realm for some years now, not so much focused on it as a phero , but because I really like this unique, and great scent. (some girls seem to also like it 
).
during the last months I noticed increasing problems at my job with loosing the “connection” to my colleagues due to my growing lone ranger attitude. besides, I’m 45 years of age. that’s why I turned to pheros, bought wagg and felt an amazing change in my own and other people’s attitude. so now I try to even improve my results and was thinking about instant gentleman or instant shine.
well, haven’t made my mind up yet, but I’m sure I will. 
regards from germany
Hi there,
Welcome to the forum.
Never use realm before. can’t comment on that.
Try Instant Honesty. It will create bond between you and the people around you. It makes people talk more personal and deeper with you. You will feel the closeness.
Good luck
Cheers
Welcome to the forum, stratosphero! I love your username, by the way. So, you’re looking to reconnect with people at your job. From what I know, at your age, you might prefer A314 over Instant Gentleman. I have neither, but from what I’ve read, Instant Gentleman is often used by younger (20s and early 30s) crowd. I’m sure someone else can clear this up for you. Instant Shine is a great product for just about anywhere. To get rid of the lone ranger effect, you might also try Instant Openness, which puts people in more of a mood to talk to you and be comfortable around you. Something that might help: what kind of work do you do? Anyway, if there’s anything else you can tell us or ask, go ahead. As soon as Tisha pops in, you should have your gift certificate. Good luck!
Welcome stratosphero,
I also think you will like instant honesty or instant openness. Both are good social pheros. the shine would be a good one also. Not sure if a314 might make you more unapproachable. well see what some of the pros suggest.
have fun
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
IG is great and for any age but you have wagg and they are simular in many ways. I suggest A314 to up your status and make them more accommadating and IH to increase deeper connecting communication.
If you have any questions just ask.
Your GC will go out shortly
Oh and Realm is a oldy but still a goody as far as mone products go. A bit weak compared to what we use here. Realm sort of paved the way for mone users but Androtics is reaching new heights in pheromonal technology 
Have fun
Tisha
so thanx to all of you for your nice welcome.
this is what I finally ordered:
- instant shine
- instant honesty
and for the fun of it
- spaceland
- turn up the heat
well, wish me luck!