This is Luis, I’m from Europe, 39 years old, looking 29-30 (as everybody says). Attractive, but not an actor or model what so ever. A bit shy concerning first contacts with strangers, especially if they’re really hot. I need to know them better to lose that shyness (and I lose it completely). I feel pretty stupid breaking the ice (first contact), not knowing exactly what to say. So, I usually retract and don’t go there and lose many opportunities, since I have had pretty hot girls looking at me all night long and I do nothing.
I’m here to learn about pheromones and figure out what works best on me. And of course, I want something that puts them jumping over me, asking for cell phone, etc, since the situations above don’t happen everyday.. lol.
Ammo is a great product for you to start with. It will give both your confidence and your sex appeal a nice boost, and can be worn in any environment. And to break the ice and help get those conversations started, Instant Openness is the bomb! You do need to help a little though, its good stuff, but its not a magic potion
Since your shy on first approach IO would be good to check out. I also think AMMO would be perfect to spark the interest in the ladies and arouse them a bit.
Where do you usually hook up with women… Clubs, social events or just when you out and about ?
Tuth is good for arousal and moving towards a more sexual encounter but its best used in a social sexual atmosphere. Ammo arouses but is buffered for use anywhere.
Many thanks for the great advices. Pretty helpful. Time to experiment and post the results. Can’t wait
EDIT: Sillykitty & tisha23: what would you like that I could tell you if you were looking at me for the first time (interested in knowing me) - I didn’t knew you? Something like: “hi, can I know you?”. Would this work or are there better approaches? Seriously, this is my biggest problem. The first approach. I feel ridiculous doing this when I don’t know you or when you don’t belong to a group of common friends…
I am NOT a PUA and would not presume to give any advice on that front. Now, with that disclaimer out there, I would like to say this:
In my personal experience, guys that approached me with a line like ‘where are you from?’ or ‘can i get to know you?’ or something else equally benign were almost an instant turn off. It made me feel like I was one out of dozens, hundreds of women, part of a long chain of approach failures. Not an attractive feeling.
Now, when someone approached me with a question or comment that was tailored to me, it made me feel as if he had noticed me in particular, had seen something in me that struck him as attractive on its own merit, not as just another conquest. I’m talking about an introductory line that might include:
asking my opinion about something
a comment that included some feature particular to me
a comment or question about something that had happened earlier in the evening
a query for help, or offer of assistance or any sort, even if it was silly
You have come to the right place. I never knew until I started reading about men and their experiences on the forum how so many men are shy and not quite sure what to tell us women.
The Men’s section ( I got to hand it to them) are filled with loads of information to assist a guy to break from his shy self and move more into that hunter he was meant to be.
You already received some good advice and right on recommendations.
At this age women expect you to know what to say and do and will be less likely to understand the shyness unless you know how to play it off.
I suggest you build up your self confidence and with the pheromones tap into that am the hunter, you’re the prey mood.
Observe your target and then when you are sure what type of girl you are dealing with open a conversation and lead it to where you want it to go. Easier said than done I know.
That is why we are here. The men can assist you better with this area. I have to sharpen my female PUA skills.
