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Hello,

As you know, this is my first post here :slight_smile: which will describe why I am here (among other things).

I’m a 21 yr old male who lives in Bucharest, Romania (that’s in Europe). My current occupation is as a student in a Computer Science faculty. The first years of my youth weren’t very happy, mostly because I wasted countless hours on the computer (I wasn’t going out at all). I picked up a group on the internet with which I became very good friends and started to go out (finally!). I’ve always wanted to go out and have fun, but the problem was that my friends were very different from me, I was more intellectually mature than them and didn’t like their stupid jokes (or lame childish games). In the group I have found I could talk about things that interest me, mostly music (i’m a metalhead :smiley:). The average age of the group was around at 21-22 years (i was only 16 at that time), so I could finally have some interesting socializing.

Because of the “all day playing computer games” thingy, I wasn’t very socially developed. I struggled hard to have a conversation with a girl in real life. It was much easier on the internet. Even with the internet when I look back in my messenger archive, the things I wrote, the way I wrote, the way I was thinking is making me go back in time and slap myself saying “omg what’s wrong with you”.

Anyways, I managed to get a girlfriend (mostly through the internet, she wasn’t from the same city) with which I had a very long r-ship (+2 years). This r-ship really sucked the life out of me (it was like a double edged sword), and I just couldn’t continue. My reason: I just wanted to be single (have a label on me that says “Single”), I wanted to meet new friends, especially girls. Now this r-ship thingy is out of my system for a good couple of years. Right now I just want to meet girls, no matter what the outcome (except getting involved too much into a real r-ship). I just want to do what some guys I see do: meet “random” girls, and this thing could go all the way to casual sex. I’m not necessarily seeking the last part, I’m just seeking some fun :slight_smile:, in whatever form.

I don’t recall when I first heard of pheromones (it wasn’t in this context anyway), but I actually got interested in them a year ago. I read very little about them, I’ve even searched for some products online, but never actually bought anything since I wasn’t sure how to and what exactly to buy.

I have recently searched on google for how pheromones help men and found this excellent post on this forum: Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp . I want to use it (or at least test it out of curiosity) in particular for a girl at my college. I’m involved in an extra curricular course (i’m a part of the “staff”) and this girl is a student at this course. There are like 15 students at this course, when it comes to exercises we (me and some other colleagues) help them out if they need help. Last week I mostly helped her, I mean I just couldn’t leave her. She’s very cute and I want to ask her out someday (don’t forget, i’m still not interested in a relationship), go in a club, etc.

I want to wear some pheromones when I go that course and make an impact on her. I don’t want an “aggressive” pheromone since that could scare her off. What should I consider ? I want something that would eventually make her say “yes” to my going out proposal.

Thanks :slight_smile:.

Just got my first mone today
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Welcome to Pherotalk.

Well, no phero will make anyone “say yes” to anything they are not already inclined to, you still have to do most of the work here. However, they will help set the mood and inspire feelings that you can capitalise on to create the right aonditions for this to happen.

At 21, you would probably be best to look at something broad based sexy/social as women around your age tend to be responsive to or comfortable with a wider social/sexy/engaging signature compared to older women who can go for a more blatently sexual/very high status feel.

To start off, you should seriously consider:

Ammo or Summer Ammo - Social sexy and masculine. Well balanced so you can use it in most situations without appearing overpoweringly horny/creepy/aggressive. The Summer version has two extra molecules which give it a more laid-back, comforting and feelgood vibe - Its scent is also excellent.

Instant Shine - Happy/feelgood and socially confident. Goes superbly with Ammo and is great in company. On its own, IS is about the most all-round product that AD sells.

IG - Smart/smooth/social status product. Great for folk around your age.

However, if you want to they the lot, you can use your GC against this - the “Killer Newbie Kit”:

Which is a togo of all the main products at a healthy discount. A good way to try the lot and see what suits you best. :slight_smile:

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Welcome to the forum and I’m glad you’re able to join us here and share you’re social ‘beginnings’ with us.

I second the AMMO suggestion, as well as saying for what your looking for, the -none content of AMMO will be enough, to get that sexy guy vibe. One spray of the regular strength AMMO would be my suggestion. I think that the SE AMMO is ONLY available in regular strength.

Though, you may be able to just go for it with IShine and IG for the Socially adept, leader vibe with the comfort coming from the IShine.

You’ve got plenty to look at and a good testing ground it seems. This is a research forum, primarily, so, please DO start up a journal and share your thoughts on the mones.

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Thanks for the suggestions guys :slight_smile: I’ll try AMMO out and let you know about the outcome.

I’m extremely curious about the results :smiley:

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Welcome to the forum Valium,

I see that you got some excellent advice and recommendations and you are all hyped up.

I really do hope you give us that feedback on how the products worked for you

The only I want to say is at 21 you are ready for a relationship esp someone as mature as you but seeing that you had that experience you prefer to have fun

While you are having this fun please ensure you let the ladies know because it will be unfair to them to think relationship when you are thinking just fun

Enjoy!

Your gc was issued!

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Don’t worry :slight_smile: I’m a bit of a feminine guy, I could never mistreat or take advantage of a female.