hi all. im j from bc. looks like there is a lot of users here!
so? ive tried a couple pheromone products in the past and had mixed results. but i would like to get some advice on what product i should use for a new situation im in. i have a long time friend ( im male shes female) that i think is considering a friends with benefits relationship (maybe leading to more) with me, but i know from her past experiences shes worried about “dating” her friend because it would be weird at first and she thinks we would be like an instant couple. i want to have a conversation about it and let her know that we should try it out and just see if theres any physical connection between us before we commit to anything. weve been friends for a long time and nothing sexual has ever happened between us.
I have never had a FWB relationship that didn’t lead to an actual couple type relationship. It has happened with me 3 times, and each time it was initiated by the girl. Each time it was because they were interested in a serious relationship with me, but didn’t know how to go about switching from friend mode to girlfriend mode. They used sex as a hook to get closer and to change my perception about having a serious relationship.
This may not be the case for you, but there may be some deeper feelings going on with her. If you are not interested in taking the relationship to a serious place tread carefully. Try and get her to open up about any feelings she might have for you. It may be that she has been attracted to you for a long time, but doesn’t know how to express it because you have a good friendship.
thanks for the reply. no, im interested shes a great girl. if we stayed friends that would be fine, but if shes thinking about trying for more, im totally on board.
but honestly, i think shes on the fence about wherher or not she should do it. thats why im thinking of getting back on the pheromone train: i want her to realize she wants me, and theres no controlling her restraint anymore!
