Hi all! Total newbie here just started doing research tonight. I am very shy and thought this might help me a little, I am told I am a very pretty woman and I run a handful of sucessful companies however, talking to new people be them men, women, new clients does not matter, I get shy and stressed out. I am 35, live in Chicago and I am trying to find things that help me feel more comfortable meeting new people.
Welcome to the forum Siner! Check out the stickies in the womens forum. You will find great information there that will help guide you. Have fun and enjoy. DrZorters
Hello Welcome to the forum ![]()
There are some good products here at Androtics that can really help you and others to be more social.
IO and IH both very good communication mones. IO is geared more toward fun, chatty, comfortable effects.
IH is a little deeper for more intimate, deep, meaningful, conversations. It also has the comfort factor as well.
Instant sexiness A is another good product for you. Sexy but not overly sexual so it can be worn anywhere comfortably. It has some great self effects reported by alot of the women. You feel more confident, sexy, in control. It also attracts attention from both men and women in my experience. It can be steared into a more sexual direction but only if you choose to stear it there.
IFM I am rarely stressed out so this one dosnt do much for me but I have seen it work on others and its amazing, really. My friends daughter suffers from terrible PMS and she will not be without this product. It calms her and gives her a feeling of well being. She buys it for self effects. I have some but I use it for a whole different reason. While it dosnt effect me, One of my supervisors at work is female and frequantly in a nasty mood. I either wear it there or spray her chair on her worst days and it really seems to calm her and make her be more pleasant. Of course she has no idle I do this LOL.
Instant Shine The mood enhancer. Makes people feel great when exposed to it. They get a feeling of well being and there moods brighten alot. They will associate this upliftment to you because they will feel it when around you. I Love this product. Its another one I use at work on and around the postmaster and supervisor.
We look forward to your participation If you have any questions please just ask.
Tisha
Maybe MarkL or I can give you some assistance in person.
We both have reasonable rates…
You sound like a successful and delightful person, and I think having that shyness is actually quite unique and adorable. If I were you, I wouldn’t want to change too much.
Try IS and IFM; they should take some of the edge off you. If you still find meeting new people too stressful, you may want to look into psycho- and hypnotherapy. One shouldn’t need more than a couple of sessions in most cases, as long as you go with a good and skilled therapist.
Welcome to the forum.
No one can have everything, but I am happy that the one thing missing for you is only outgoingness!
Shyness is easy to overcome, even it doesn’t seem like it now.
You really need to make up your mind and it will come naturaly.
I have first-hand personally experience.
I was really shy a many years ago (but I believe I am not a naturally extremely shy person) and it was because of puberty perhaps. I really decided to not live like that and forced myself to talk and chat with random people. It really took a while before I stop being really nervous, but it feel great now!
GOOD LUCK ![]()
mockingbird is right. I also used to be shy, reserved, self-conscious, and afraid to talk to women, for fear of rejection, I guess. Then, I don’t remember exactly what clicked, but I knew I had to change myself. Once I did and actually started talking to women a strange thing happened…I found they actually liked me…WOW, who would have thought ![]()
Anyway, I can know walk up to anybody and find something to start a conversation over. Overcoming shyness isn’t the easiest thing. BUt, once you do, you’ll wonder what you ever had to be shy about.
Hello SinChicago, like everyone else said, you already have a lot going for you, and with some of the products that Tisha suggested, LOOK OUT WORLD! I also tend to be shy sometimes, but other times, just the opposite when I just relax and not try to hard.
It’s always so nice when a new woman signs up and asks for help. All the guys come running and offer help and advice and foot rubs… LOL!
I think Tisha has given the most valuable advice when it comes to pheromones. She lays it out as best as only she can. Very informative information.
Here’s what I am going to recommend, coming from a recoverng shy guy. Talk to people, everywhere you go. Say hello at least to every one. People intrinsically love to chat. If you find it difficult think of it like one of those businesses you have run. It’s a challenge, an adrenaline rush, a way to get that blood boiling.
I’m coming over to have a conversation about how to use the gift certificate I emailed you. I like to talk so you better get ready.