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Hello

I’m 29, male, from Italy. (Let’s hope my English is better than the sad, sad average of my fellow countrymen :open_mouth: )

I found this forum from a Google ad–it’s actually one of the few times I’ve clicked on a Google ad! :stuck_out_tongue:

The reason I’m interested in pheromones is very practical, and probably most common. I have some personal problems with relationships. I hope you will help me understand if these scents can be a part of my solution or not. :confused:

My personality is very atypical in the real world (that’s not a typo, it is rare: INTJ on the Myers-Briggs type indicator, or 1% of the population) On the other hand, it’s quite common on the internet :confused: Anyways, one of my main personality traits is introversion. This is not necessarily a bad thing (look it up on Wikipedia, the first paragraph there describes me pretty well!) but it does mean that I have a small circle of friends, that I don’t actively seek out parties and other kinds of “excitement”, and that I hate having to make social contact with people :angry:

I’m not shy, I just find social relations and chit-chat with strangers tiring and stressful. Even on the internet, I take part in a lot of forums and mailing lists but not in social networks such as Facebook. I can’t stand them. IRL, I see a few close friends regularly, but I try to avoid clubs or social gatherings.

Which brings me to my main problem: girls. I can’t find a girlfriend for the life of me. I can’t even get a date, and I’ve been trying for quite some time. :frowning:

(I can hear a chorus of “No shit Sherlock!” Will you please cut it out and read the rest. :slight_smile:

Now, I’m a decently smart, educated, good-hearted, and caring person, I dress well (meaning I try to dress attractively), I have a nice job, I live on my own, I have many interests, I shower and shave daily, I work out regularly, I’m slim and fit. In other words, I might be a nerd, but I’m not a cave dweller! I’m also not overly shy or anxious, although I might get too much on the “insecure” side when I’m around girls.

Notwithstanding all this, girls don’t find me the least bit attractive. When I try to “take it easy”, they don’t even understand I have romantic intentions. When I try to be more assertive, they get scared and run away, or just turn me down. I know these issues are common to the whole male gender, but I believe I’m experiencing them way more than my share.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not expecting you to solve my problems for me (one of the reasons I’m typing this rant out is to better understand my problems myself–and I guess I’ll have to seek professional help if this goes on for much longer. Yes, I’m that depressed.) I just thought I’d try to see if there is some “chemical aid” that would help me get the ball rolling.

I should mention that I’m looking for a stable, romantic relationship, with a nice girl maybe a few years my younger. I’m not interested in “one night stands” at all (I actually turned down one last year! Which again, is a more significant gesture from my point of view than from most.) I don’t have problems making the very first move, “breaking the ice” as it is, but I do quickly feel insecure if I don’t see the girl reacting with the tiniest bit of interest. Which is what usually happens–or rather, fails to happen. :frowning:

Does any of this make sense to you? :confused:

I’m also still trying to understand if this pheromone deal is a Master Scam or if there’s any truth to it… so if you’d like to give me any practical advice, please go for a single product, as I’m not likely to buy more than a tiny bottle before I’ve seen for myself that it’s not a scam. No offense meant to the researchers in this field, of course. I just think there’s a lot of scammers preying on the lonely and desperate, and I’m not going to fall for it.

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Hey there etx, welcome to the forum.

Yep, you’re dead right, there are plenty of scams out there, guess what, this isn’t one of them. Do a google search, find a pheromone spray and then come back here and search for it, the chances are that it is discussed openly on here, that’s how secure androtics ( the hosts of this forum) are about the quality of their products.

Oh by the way, your English puts many of my countrymen to shame, thank you!

Have a look in the new users’ section, there you will find a thread entitled " how do I get $25 gift certificate". I imagine you have qualified already with that excellent introduction therefore Tisha will be along shortly with your gift certificate, this will be sent to your email address as a redemption code in the smartmones.com store.

Now, although we Europeans have to spend a little more on shipping, you will be able to get at least two of the to go bottles (about 40 sprays each) for just a few euros. I would advise you to look at ammunition and Instant Shine to start with. These will give a subtle sexual vibe, make you feel more confident and make the ladies a little more confident around you. Unfortunately, there isn’t a single product out there that will do all the work for you, you will still have to break the ice with the ladies.

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Hi etx, and welcome!

Thank you for sharing that information about your personality and what you want to accomplish.

Please rest assured this is not a scam. I am new myself, having just joined last month. I, like most people, was slightly skeptical. even though I had taken time to read through this forum. The more I read, the more I felt that this was not a scam.

I went ahead and ordered some small bottles of things, also with the help of the $25 Gift Certificate. When my order arrived, I began trying each item individually as was recommended, to get a feel of each one. Once I felt comfortable with the effects of each, I began trying them in combinations.

For you, I would recommend starting with Ammo, Instant Openness, and Instant Shine. Each of these works well on its own, and also in combination with each other.

Warm regards,
Sillykitty

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Hello and welcome to the forum.

I understand if you are a little skeptical - alot of use were when we first came here but xonsidering all but a couple of us here are customers I hope that puts your mind to rest.

What part of Italy are you from?

I think Diamond and silly Kitty aimed you in the right direction as far as products go. Ammo will certainly let the ladies know you are interested but it is balanced enough to wear to work. IO will also help you a lot with conversations - sometimes too much if that is possible. And IShine will leave people around you happy you are there. It can often create a bubble of happy talkative people all in its own.

Let us know what you are thinking about doing.

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Hello There Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

I hope you didn’t order yet LOL

Do not get IO. I am a talker myself and this one can drive me insane people bug me so much. It does what it says though. Opens a flood gate of chatter. LOL

I would suggest something deeper. Its increases communication but its on a more deep connecting level and causes a lot less social chatter. IH will give you a better rapport and connection with others.

No offence but I get the feel your personality comes of as a little cold. I am not saying you are cold but people are perceiving it that way. I suggest Ishine for a warm charismatic charm.

Next to up the sex appeal a bit and draw more interest I suggest AMMO.

If you have questions just ask.

Oh and keep in mind that women are social creatures by nature. So you gotta get out there and interact. :wink:

Your GC is on its way

Tisha
Hostess/Guide

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Thank you all for your comments and advice!

bosshank: I’m from northern Italy, near Venice. The climate is a bit rougher here, compared to the rest of “sunny Italy”, although not yet continental in nature. It’s also quite damp in summer.

I’ve perused these forums, and although I’m still skeptical, I will allow the benefit of doubt and try these products first-hand. Androtics looks like a honest company, so I’ve placed an order with them.

I got 3 to-go bottles: Ammo, IH and IS.
I’ll make sure to test them separately at first, and then together, and report my findings!

tisha: thank you for the gift certificate! I’ve also appreciated your comment about IH vs. IO, great advice! About coming out as a cold person… I fear you’re right, but I’m not yet sure how to change it. I guess I’ll have to work on it somehow.

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I just got my order! Wow, I regularly buy stuff from the US over the internet, but this has been the fastest shipping ever. They even put a gift in! So now I have 4 scents to experiment with! :slight_smile:

I’m so excited! Will this stuff change my life? Will it be a flop? Will it help me become a better person?