Hi Mr Rice
Interesting nickname btw 
Great that you have decided to join this forum & your interest in the phero products here
Well i got my recommendation just for your situation there try A314 + Instant Openness
And i got two links that will be useful to you> mens pheromone guide & What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated So do check out those two links as they are filled with useful info and i leave it to you to think about my recommendation there.