New to pheromones and looking forward to using them. I’m excited.
I’m 19, female, and from LA. What actually attracted me to using pheromones and this website were my problems of sexual arousal… It’s really hard for me to get turned on at all, so I wanna use something like Turn Up The Heat for myself. I’m hoping it will do the trick. Does anyone else have experience with this by any chance?
(edit) More about myself: I’m a college student… I’m into the arts, I’m friendly, open-minded, and fun-loving, but I’m not too outgoing. I tend to be shy/quiet, especially at first and in social settings where I don’t know many people. So I’m definitely looking forward to using Instant Shine and Instant Openness to see how they can affect me (yes I’ve already been doing my research haha).
Personally, I have not tried Turn Up The Heat for that reason, but I believe it does have that effect on some women. That is actually a good question to ask in the Women’s section though.
Would you mind sharing a bit about yourself, your personality and how you get along with others? And besides getting your libido going, are there any other things that you are considering using pheros for?
Welcome to the forums. If you find it difficult to get sexually aroused at all, I think it’d be a good idea to consult a doctor about it. It may be a physical problem, like a hormonal imbalance or (hopefully not!!) brain problem. It could be psychological. Diet could be a factor, vegetarians and vegans tend to have lower sex drives due to the lack of certain nutrients, such as saturated fat, in the diet, which are necessary for the production of hormones.
It could simply be an external problem too. In other words, a boyfriend who doesn’t know how to get your fire lit. In which case, you can solve it by taking him back to the store and exchanging for one that isn’t defective
Pheros tend to enhance what is already there; a woman who already responds to androstenone on a guy will tend to respond to Turn Up The Heat. That phero tends to create what I call “sexual tension”, a sort of I-need-to-mate-NOW signal. Some women don’t like that but respond sexually to the social pheros. They are ones who need to feel relaxed and safe to get turned on. Shine, Honesty and even Spaceland can work for these women.
Good luck and I hope you find a solution to your problem, whether it’s here or somewhere else.
Tezza23 has given you some great advice. I would second his recommendation. As sillykitty said, TUTH could help, and posting a thread in the Womens Forum for some feedback is something you should look into. I will be interested to see what happens, and I hope you can find what you are looking for from your phero use.
Aloha and welcome the forums!I have a wife that im trying to “turn on”.You can check my other post and journals for my testing.DOnt know what going on in her…but I hope and sure you will find someting here that will help you! good luck and happy testing!
Thanks for all the welcomes and thanks the advice, tezza23! I have definitely been thinking of going to a therapist, but I thought that maybe pheromones could simply do the trick. Another woman had said on another site that they were using pheromogne cologne to “get their mind there” and l-arginine to “get their body there”- this statement is what drew me to research using pheromones. But I guess I’ll still have to see someone as it’s most likely a hormonal/psychological problem since it’s so persistent.
Ah maybe I’ll try out Spaceland too though, relaxation does seem to be another small problem of mine.
Wow, that could be a problem. Remember pheromones are not magic and I believe that there is more to this.
I have tried TUTH to get a more sexual orgasm but personally am horny more than the average women so I wasn’t sure if it was the product or me.
There are many reasons why a woman especially one as young as you would not be able to get sexually aroused :
You had a bad experience or experiences with sex like you were sexually abused as a child or really bad sexual experiences with men you did not feel much of an attraction for.
You come from a religious family that makes sense seem bad and it’s affecting you mentally and physically
You are one of those persons who are not that sexual and to top it of you haven’t met that special guy to turn on the juices
A woman needs to be fully a woman and one of the ways we women find ourselves is by being in control of our sexuality. Becoming comfortable with your body like looking at your private self in the mirror. I was told by some of my girls that masturbating helped them to have orgasms during sex.
As tezza said therapy might help but if you can probably pop into the women’s section and explain to us why you feel this way maybe we can assist free of charge.
