Hi there Jhoni,
Cool that your from Indonesia.I know some malay since im from Malaysia but im not that good at Indonesian(><)Good that you found the forums here,they pheromones here are definitely genuine and you can find out for yourself once you get your gift certificate anyway(^^)Nah,your english is fine.I can understand you so is all good(^^)Hmm,for the mixes you want.Charisma and respect would definitely be either instant gentleman or A314.instant gentleman is slightly more relaxed and better for socializing but A314 is a lot stronger and you will get more charisma and respect,it just might be a bit intimidating for some people.Should be fine if your confident though and can approach people.You can buffer it with the socials also(^^)For a warm personality instant shine and instant openness are both good.Instant shine will make everyone around you in a better mood and instant openness will make you more approachable and people more chatty.You could also use instant openness with A314 to buffer it.For attracting the opposite sex,ammo is definitely a good one.It gives you a more sexy and cool vibe which is good for attracting the ladies.You may be able to go for the double strength one since your older than 35.Those are all the possible ones you could get.Instant gentleman+instant shine for the day and ammo+instant shine for the night and dates works pretty well for most people.You could also check out the stickies below for more information about the products.All the best and dont hesitate to ask if you have any questions(^_^)