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What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated by Tisha23
I believe there is a church scene in their as well that might answer your question, pheromones will give you an edge but you have to do most of the work, it’s like gettinga new cologne or new clothes or a hair cut it’s a new you but you stilll have to work at being YOU 
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