Just joined and got the first products to try out. I think my first comment would simply be to prepare yourself. For example, when using honesty, just be prepared for whatever you might (or might not) have been expecting to hear! It sounds scary but it really was not, just intense. There was quite a history w/my Ex. and primarily a painful fizzle because of this constant undercurrent of mistrust that developed. Well this weekend we met after not seeing each other now, for two months. I decided to try out the honesty spray and then a little of the openness. We proceeded to talk for three days! Is the relationship any better? Well, I can say that it’s “real” at least! Yes, I did learn some difficult things -but in the end, it really shed some light on many unanswered questions and oddities more than anything else. There was a lot he was afraid to tell me, for fear of losing me, but hey, his lies ended up loosing me anyway. Women can sense when something is really wrong and now I had the reasons why. We basically talked, went out, ate, drank and talked some more for three days straight and when it got a bit heavy, I thought some shine sprayed on might help and it certainly did. You know, I see now how important these products can be when used carefully. I hope to try out some other products but find that there are not very many made for women, I hope the options in the women’s line of products increases a bit. There are some men products that I would be interested in just trying (truly experimental tests) but don’t think I can order them… Well as I say, I am still learning and experimenting so let me know what you think of my little “pheromone study” so far and what you have experienced using these products!
Welcome to the forum, Smithie!
I’m glad you’ve already had some great experiences with AD products. Personally, I haven’t seen a whole lot from IH yet, but IShine is definitely one of my favorites. Are you planning on purchasing more pheromones in the future? If so, what are you trying to accomplish from using pheromones? Increased attraction in the future? Easier socializing? More respect? Can you also tell us a little bit more about yourself? Things like age and your personality are also useful if you’re seeking some advice.
If you’re looking for some more help regarding pheromones, I would also suggest posting in the Women’s section of the forums as you’ll be able to get more gender-specific advice there.
Hey smithie, welcome to the forum!
Congratulations on your purchase. Instant Shine is my favorite too. If you ever have any questions, don’t be a fraid to ask as we are all here to help one another. Enjoy your pheromones, and I look forward to hearing all about your adventures in the future.
Hi Smithie,
I too was in a relationship the way you are describing except it was the girl who was the mistrusting one who loathed attention from anything and everyone. It would have definitely been interesting if i could have tried some of the mones out back then but that was before i encountered this great community.
I have had great hits from instant shine and wear it every chance i get for the self effects and the scent it has. It just perks me up and anyone around me and gives me confidence. IH i have two bottles and had a few deep conversations with my S/O but we normally have them anyway so im not sure if i can attribute it to the IH just yet.
Welcome to the forum, you will feel right at home here without a doubt.
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 
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I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too . Its cool!
Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one.
Welcome to the forum.